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# Concepts
Ideas I refer to and appreciate:
* [Cheeseburger Ethics](https://notebook.drmaciver.com/posts/2024-01-17-09:02.html) - some things are bad, without it being a big deal - it’s still good to try to do them less, but you shouldn’t consider yourself morally obliged to eliminate them entirely
* [The Galahad Principle](https://notes.jml.io/posts/2019-10-31-07:48.html) - sometimes getting to 100% yields disproportionate value over being at 99%
* [The Starfish Principle](https://blog.doismellburning.co.uk/the-starfish-principle-every-little-bit-helps/) - every little bit helps, and while you may barely make a dent in something on a macro level, you can still have a huge impact for some individuals
* [Universal Greeting Time](http://www.total-knowledge.com/~ilya/mips/ugt.html) - it’s always morning when someone says hello online, and always late night when they leave - instead of spending time figuring out what time it is for someone, you can now spend time explaining Universal Greeting Time instead
* [Goodhart’s Law Isn’t as Useful as You Might Think](https://commoncog.com/goodharts-law-not-useful/) - Goodhart’s law (“when a measure becomes a target, it ceases to be a good measure”) is pithy but overly simple - when people are pressured to meet a target, they can work to improve the system, or distort the system or data - you need to make things hard to distort, and give people space to improve the system.
* [The Cube Rule of Food](https://cuberule.com/) - food can be classified based on the location of structural starch
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# Office Hours
I’m offering open weekly “Office Hours”, for anyone who thinks talking to me could help them.
These will be sessions of 30 minutes up to an hour over Google Meet,
where I’ll try to answer your questions and/or offer coaching, feedback, or whatever else might be of assistance.
## Why am I doing this?
Shameless self interest: I really enjoy helping people.
I’m taking a break between jobs right now and it’s great, but I’ve got a bit of time while our 2yo is at nursery and I wanted to use it to help other folks.
I’ve also just benefitted a lot from talking with other people over the years and want to pay it forwards!
## What sort of things?
Try me? I’m a lapsed software engineer who has spent the last decade growing and running internationally-distributed tech organisations, so I have opinions on feedback, career growth, hiring processes, architecture, etc - and some of that will probably still be useful even if you’re not in tech.
But I’ve also helped run conferences, trusteed a charity, done security research and hardware hacking, managed GDPR and PCI compliance and audits and more. I don’t necessarily know how I can help but I’m certainly willing to try!
## How to sign up?
Drop me an email at `officehours@d*is****b******.co.uk` with a few sentences on what you’d like to talk about,
and if I think I can be of assistance then we’ll get something scheduled.
**If you’re currently unemployed and actively job hunting and think I can help with CV/interview feedback or similar then I especially encourage you to get in touch and will prioritise you - I’m conscious that there’s a bunch of folks who’ve been on the receiving end of layoffs etc. recently and are looking for their next thing ASAP**
## Thanks
[Thanks to Robert Heaton for the prompt and a bunch of wording and framing inspiration](https://robertheaton.com/2019/12/05/why-i-have-office-hours-and-you-should-too/).
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# Management
Skews towards *engineering* management, but not exclusively.
See also [Hiring](../hiring/index.md).
## Onboarding
* [https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483](https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483)
* [Onboarding EMs - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/onboarding-ems/)
## Feedback
* [How can you make feedback conversations less painful?](https://medium.com/management-matters/how-can-you-make-feedback-conversations-less-painful-7dde58a944e4)
## Influence
* [How to be “high agency” at work - by Torsten Walbaum](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/how-to-be-high-agency-at-work)
* [Questionable Advice: “How can I drive change and influence teams…without power?”](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/05/drive-change-and-influence-teams-without-power/)
* [Influence Without Authority. One of the most common topics that… | by Gustavo de Lima | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/@gusdlim/influence-without-authority-e4c2971ca7b6)
* [How GitHub taught me to Micromanage — Matthew Rocklin](https://matthewrocklin.com/feedback.html)
* [DRMacIver’s Notebook: Taking responsibility for failure](https://notebook.drmaciver.com/posts/2024-02-06-10:51.html)
## Leadership & Development
* [Leaders Tackle Challenges Early](https://medium.com/management-matters/leaders-tackle-challenges-early-7ded27424cf9)
* [How to Take Personal Development Off the Backburner — Tactical Frameworks for Leveling Up](https://review.firstround.com/how-to-take-personal-development-off-the-backburner-tactical-frameworks-for-leveling-up)
* [The dark side of the leadership](https://elenaverna.substack.com/p/the-dark-side-of-the-leadership)
* [What I have been taught about leadership…](https://guynewey.medium.com/what-i-have-been-taught-about-leadership-year-1-170c55b634dc)
* [Open Leadership Training Series](https://mozilla.github.io/open-leadership-training-series/)
* [The Signs of a Good CEO. Five Essential Features | by Roger Martin | Oct, 2024 | Medium](https://rogermartin.medium.com/the-signs-of-a-good-ceo-160a73656cf9)
* [things I learned from my ex-boss Dinesh - @visakanv’s blog](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/dinesh/)
* [A Practical Guide to Executive Presence: Earning Respect | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/leadership/2024/11/19/executive-presence-part-2.html?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Clear Thinking: Your Secret Weapon Against Leadership Stress – Scott Cochrane](https://scottcochrane.com/index.php/2024/11/21/clear-thinking-your-secret-weapon-against-leadership-stress/)
* [Stop Overthinking, Start Leading: The Power of Taking the First Step | by Scott Lyons | Management Matters | Feb, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/stop-overthinking-start-leading-the-power-of-taking-the-first-step-e97b8a6cff20)
* [Why doing less makes you a better leader - Blog - Tech Leaders Launchpad](https://techleaderslaunchpad.com/resources/blog/why-doing-less-makes-you-a-better-leader)
* [Career Development: What It Really Means to be a Manager, Director, or VP - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2015/03/08/career-development-what-it-really-means-to-be-a-manager-director-or-vp/)
* [How to Hire a CEO. I often find boards of startups taking… | by Vinod Khosla | Jul, 2024 | Medium](https://medium.com/@vkhosla/how-to-hire-a-ceo-2912354ceca5)
* [All I Need to Know About Engineering Leadership I Learned From Leave No Trace - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2024/jul/12/lnt-for-engineering-leadership/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Typical First Years of Startup Engineering Leadership](https://marcgg.com/blog/2024/07/17/startup-technical-leadership/)
* [Lessons learned in 35 years of making software – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2024/07/03/lessons-learned-in-35-years-of-making-software/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Wrong Doors. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/no-wrong-doors/)
## Team Management & Dynamics
* [Helicopter Management and Other Mistakes](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/19/helicopter-management/)
* [How To Fix Broken Teams | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/management/2024/01/23/fix-teams.html)
* [Why Most Organizations Produce Brittle Teams Instead of Elastic Teams](https://mdalmijn.com/p/why-most-organizations-produce-brittle)
* [Rethinking Agile 1/3: Teams, Trust and Leadership | by Andrew Winnicki | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://andrewwinnicki.medium.com/rethinking-agile-1-3-teams-trust-and-leadership-ec8bee868915)
* [Managers Make Teams Deliver More Value, Not Deliver More Output](https://www.scarletink.com/p/managers-make-teams-deliver-more-value)
* [The Brilliant Jerk vs. Team Performance - Problem #3](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/the-brilliant-jerk-vs-team-performance)
* [Three Ways to Gain Visibility into Indirectly Managed Teams](https://softwareleads.substack.com/p/three-ways-to-gain-visibility-into)
* [Evolving annual reteaming at Redgate | by Chris Smith | Ingeniously Simple | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/ingeniouslysimple/evolving-annual-reteaming-at-redgate-8c7526be267f)
* [How to Use Delivery to Move from Blame to Trust - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/newsletter/2025/04/how-to-use-delivery-to-move-from-blame-to-trust/)
* [Managing Underperformers | Jack Danger](https://jackdanger.com/managing-underperformers/)
* [Creative Peer Recognition: How to Get Better at Team Celebration](https://letsgrowleaders.com/2024/07/08/creative-peer-recognition/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Micromanagement - The Absolute Worst? - Yaniv Preiss](https://yanivpreiss.com/2024/07/06/micromanagement-the-absolute-worst/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Forming, Storming, Dreaming, Performing — Gosei](https://gosei.eu/blog/orming/)
* [teambuilding / lower case opinions](https://lowercaseopinions.com/teambuilding)
* [How organisations cripple engineering teams with good intentions](https://varoa.net/2024/01/09/how-organisations-cripple-engineering-teams-with-good-intentions.html)
## Goals, Strategy & Planning
* [OKRs as a strategy debugger (& sandwich maker)](https://www.allankelly.net/archives/7464/okrs-as-a-strategy-debugger-sandwich-maker/)
* [Good Goals/Bad Goals](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-216-good-goalsbad-goals)
* [TBM 324: Goal-O-Rama - by John Cutler - The Beautiful Mess](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-324-goal-o-rama)
* [How to Reduce Planning, Deliver More, and Surprisingly, Reduce Pressure - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/mpd/2025/03/how-to-reduce-planning-deliver-more-and-surprisingly-reduce-pressure/)
* [TBM 383: Maximizers vs. Focusers - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-383-maximizers-vs-focusers)
* [I Like Dumb Plans - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/i-like-dumb-plans?publication_id=1461103)
* [TBM 234: Maintenance, KTLO, and BAU - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-234-maintenance-ktlo-and-bau)
* [TBM 235: Forms & Shadows - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-235-forms-and-shadows)
* [Strategy as a Series of Beliefs - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/05/12/strategy-as-a-series-of-beliefs/)
* [Your non-linear problem of 90% utilization](https://longform.asmartbear.com/utilization)
* [Roadmaps are tools - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/roadmaps/)
## Performance & Metrics
* [Evaluating Managers: 5 heuristics to measure managerial impact](https://abdulapopoola.com/2023/01/09/evaluating-managers-5-heuristics-to-measure-managerial-impact/)
* [Am I a Good Manager ?. If you find yourself asking this… | by That Crazy Moment | Medium](https://medium.com/@thatcrazymoment/am-i-a-good-manager-269d760c70a1)
* [People Success Performance Indicators | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/people-group/people-success-performance-indicators/)
* [Output vs. Outcomes - Problem #4 - by Mike Fisher](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/output-vs-outcomes-problem-4)
* [Selecting the right product metrics (KPIs)](https://longform.asmartbear.com/product-metrics/)
* [Product Principles | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/product/product-principles/)
* [Simple scorecards beat scales - Garry Shutler](https://gshutler.com/2023/08/simple-scorecards-beat-scales/)
## Communication & Collaboration
* [The subtle science of storytelling at work - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/communication/storytelling-at-work)
* [Communication Structures in a Growing Organization – Jessitron](https://jessitron.com/2024/11/24/communication-structures-in-a-growing-organization/)
* [The Precise Language Of Good Management - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/the-precise-language-of-good-management)
* [Nailing the basics: How to collaborate cross-functionally](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/nailing-the-basics-how-to-collaborate)
* [Playing defense: How to control the narrative if your work is being questioned](https://newsletter.weskao.com/p/playing-defense-how-to-control-narrative?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [How to Communicate When Trust Is Low (Without Digging Yourself Into A Deeper Hole) – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/08/17/how-to-communicate-when-trust-is-low-without-digging-yourself-into-a-deeper-hole/)
* [Fixing the fundamental problems of today’s remote meetings | Remeet — Incredibly fast and efficient meetings](https://www.remeet.com/whitepaper/)
## Delegation & Decision Making
* [Delegating Complex Tasks - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/delegating-complex-tasks)
* [Being in the details - by James Stanier](https://theengineeringmanager.substack.com/p/being-in-the-details)
## Organization & Culture
* [GitHub’s Engineering System Success Playbook - GitHub Resources](https://resources.github.com/engineering-system-success-playbook/)
* [Manage process before people](https://world.hey.com/dhh/manage-process-before-people-20736695)
* [Thriving in Chaos](https://medium.com/ni-tech-talk/thriving-in-chaos-f0d0e37ebfa3)
* [The Openverse - Open Source People & Culture Resources](https://www.openverse.fyi/)
* [When You Plateau, So Does Your Company](https://every.to/no-small-plans/a-founder-s-guide-to-expanding-your-comfort-zone)
* [Be a thermostat, not a thermometer](https://larahogan.me/blog/be-a-thermostat-not-a-thermometer/)
* [Thermostats | Another Rodeo](https://another.rodeo/thermostats/)
* [Design Your Organization for the Conflicts You Want to Hear About - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/10/12/design-your-organization-for-the-conflicts-you-want-to-hear-about/)
* [TBM 347: “Why Don’t Our Leaders Care About How We Work?”](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-347-why-dont-our-leaders-care)
* [TBM 336: Product OS Design Tips and Principles](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-336-product-os-design-tips-and)
* [Jade Rubick - Organizational work and the second job](https://www.rubick.com/organizational-work-second-job/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Meetings, No Deadlines, No Full-Time Employees](https://sahillavingia.com/work)
## Difficult Situations
* [The Surprising Benefits of Conflict in the Workplace](https://davidburkus.com/2023/06/the-surprising-benefits-of-conflict-in-the-workplace/)
* [How do you handle layoffs on a large scale?](https://medium.com/@eyalmrejen/how-do-you-handle-layoffs-on-a-large-scale-9f513f496659)
* [Managers Believe Downsizing Is Effective. Research… | Corporate Rebels](https://www.corporate-rebels.com/blog/managers-believe-downsizing-is-effective-research-says-nope)
* [Human flaws in management: Unintentionally leading employees from engagement to exhaustion | by Austin Mackesy-Buckley | Management Matters | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/human-flaws-in-management-unintentionally-leading-employees-from-engagement-to-exhaustion-f4d8138c80bb)
* [Are We Done Talking About Burnout Yet? Sadly, No](https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbesbusinesscouncil/2024/07/12/are-we-done-talking-about-burnout-yet-sadly-no/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Barriers to Change: Limiting Beliefs — NOBL](https://nobl.io/changemaker/change-barriers-limiting-beliefs/)
* [How to prepare for difficult conversations](https://www.stefanobaccianella.com/p/how-to-prepare-for-difficult-conversations)
* [The Silent Killer of Your Operating Practice: Fear](https://review.firstround.com/the-silent-killer-of-your-operating-practice-fear/)
* [Product Managing to Prevent Burnout | Honeycomb](https://www.honeycomb.io/blog/product-managing-prevent-burnout)
## Reviews & Meetings
* [A Guide to Running Outstanding Business Reviews](https://evidence.dev/blog/business-reviews/)
* [Get the Weekly Business Review App - Working Backwards](https://workingbackwards.com/wbr-app/)
## Specific Roles
* [5 Things Founders, Investors and Recruiters Should Know about the CTO role](https://medium.com/cto-as-a-service/5-things-founders-investors-and-recruiters-should-know-about-the-cto-role-a65d7bb66264)
* [7 proven mental models for engineering managers](https://zaidesanton.substack.com/p/mental-models-for-engineering-managers)
* [Explaining the role of a Delivery Manager – Emily Webber](https://emilywebber.co.uk/what-is-an-agile-delivery-manager/)
* [Hire for Floors, not Ceilings - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2023/aug/16/floors-not-ceilings/)
* [Introverted Engineering Managers Manage From The Background — Why That’s A Good Thing | by Alex Ponomarev | Engineering Manager’s Journal | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/engineering-managers-journal/introverted-engineering-managers-manage-from-the-background-why-thats-a-good-thing-502a9770e8fc)
* [Knowing where your engineer salary comes from | sean goedecke](https://www.seangoedecke.com/where-the-money-comes-from/)
* [The farther you go up the ladder, the less it’s about your technical skills – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2023/08/14/the-farther-you-go-up-the-ladder-the-less-its-about-your-technical-skills/)
* [What a CTO should know about tech | deadSimpleTech](https://deadsimpletech.com/blog/cto_tech_capabilities)
* [Why Should You (Or Anyone) Become An Engineering Manager? – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/12/15/why-should-you-or-anyone-become-an-engineering-manager/)
* [Questionable Advice: “My boss says we don’t need any engineering managers. Is he right?” – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2024/01/05/questionable-advice-my-boss-says-we-dont-need-any-engineering-managers-is-he-right/)
## Books & Resources
* [Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss 📚 log(book)](https://books.rixx.de/chris-voss/never-split-the-difference/)
* [Management Mantras - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/management-mantras)
## Misc
* [“Good engineering management” is a fad | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/good-eng-mgmt-is-a-fad/)
* [Why were you late?](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/late/)
* [A manager’s ultimate guide to effective succession planning - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/leadership/guide-to-effective-succession-planning)
* [Scale your impact as a manager—six areas where you need to do the heavy lifting - Management Excellence by Art Petty](https://artpetty.com/2025/01/19/career-scaling-your-impact/)
* [The Rise and Fall of the Blue-Collar Developers](https://2ndworst.dev/posts/rise-and-fall-blue-collar-developers/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Writers who operate. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/writers-who-operate/)
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# Aider
> Aider lets you pair program with LLMs, to edit code in your local git repository. Start a new project or work with an existing code base.
> [https://aider.chat/](https://aider.chat/)
Thanks to [Mark Wotton](http://shimweasel.com/)’s recommendation, I’ve been playing around a bunch with Aider - “AI pair programming in your terminal” - using Anthropic’s Claude as a backend.
So far I’m impressed.
In [Drew Breunig’s model of AI use cases (gods, interns, and cogs)](https://www.dbreunig.com/2024/10/18/the-3-ai-use-cases-gods-interns-and-cogs.html) it’s an intern, but it’s a pretty good one at that.
And that makes it a hugely powerful partner.
I’ve been building user-facing production software for about 20 years now,
I like to think of myself as a reasonably proficient software engineer.
But I’ve also spent the last 10 years in management and leadership roles,
where the only code I’ve actually written myself has been for personal or professional side-projects.
So there are areas where I’m rusty - I’ve lost track of the latest way to write an `__init__` method in modern Python,
or the right syntax for labelling a form field in HTML.
I can go look them up,
but Aider (plus good linting and testing setups) takes so much of the effort away,
so I can focus on what matters.
It gets things wrong, but the things it gets wrong tend to be higher-level conceptual issues - problems with the approach, rather than details of the code itself.
For example, forms that `GET` when they should `POST`, HTTP status codes that don’t quite represent the right meaning, etc.
And these are the things that I can easily notice and fix - they’re fundamental (if sometimes subtle) pieces of knowledge about the systems as a whole.
It’s not “writing code for me”,
but it has been a huge force-multiplier on the code I’ve used it with.
## Concerns
I have some concerns.
They’re general AI-usage-shaped ones, rather than specific to Aider,
but this is the primary place I’ve actually had to face them.
They concern me enough to want to mention them alongside my recommendation,
but not enough to make me want to stop using it.
### Training Data
I’m concerned about the training data used,
the appropriateness of the usage,
and the ethics of using the output of that.
But I trust Anthropic to do reasonable and sensible things,
even if I’ve not got much more than vibes
(not entirely baselessly - they do seem to be the most thoughtful of the big players, e.g. [https://privacy.anthropic.com/en/articles/10023555-how-do-you-use-personal-data-in-model-training](https://privacy.anthropic.com/en/articles/10023555-how-do-you-use-personal-data-in-model-training)),
and [this doesn’t feel materially ethically worse than eating a cheeseburger](https://notebook.drmaciver.com/posts/2024-01-17-09:02.html) - not necessarily great, but not fundamentally terrible.
### Skill Atrophy
I’m concerned it might be making my development skills atrophy,
as I rely on it to handle things for me.
But just as I’m ok with the iOS Contacts app meaning I have no memory for phone numbers any more,
or Google Maps meaning I never improved my terrible sense of geography,
I think this is a tradeoff I’m happy to make.
(Plus arguably those skills were decaying a little for me already…)
## Config
My Aider config is simple - at the time of writing it’s as below (live version at [https://github.com/doismellburning/dotfiles/blob/master/aider/aider.conf.yml.symlink](https://github.com/doismellburning/dotfiles/blob/master/aider/aider.conf.yml.symlink)):
```yaml
architect: true # Run in architect mode - propose solutions but ask me before doing anything
auto-commits: false # Don't commit for me - I want to tidy things first
lint-cmd: make fix # Use my conventional setup for code cleanup tools
test-cmd: make test # Use my conventional setup for running tests
```
I generally try not to customise things too heavily,
and with Aider I really didn’t feel much need.
## Backends
I use Aider with Claude Sonnet because I like Anthropic and because Claude worked well for me.
Note that you’ll need [Anthropic API credits, which aren’t the same as Claude Pro](https://support.anthropic.com/en/articles/9876003-i-subscribe-to-claude-pro-why-do-i-have-to-pay-separately-for-api-usage-on-console).
I’ve known folks use it fine with OpenAI o1 and DeepSeek R1.
My brief experiments with local models didn’t go so well.
## So
I like Aider, I expect to continue using it, and if you know what you’re doing, I recommend giving it a try.
# index.html.md
# Management
Skews towards *engineering* management, but not exclusively.
See also [Hiring](../hiring/index.md).
## Onboarding
* [https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483](https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483)
* [Onboarding EMs - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/onboarding-ems/)
## Feedback
* [How can you make feedback conversations less painful?](https://medium.com/management-matters/how-can-you-make-feedback-conversations-less-painful-7dde58a944e4)
## Influence
* [How to be “high agency” at work - by Torsten Walbaum](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/how-to-be-high-agency-at-work)
* [Questionable Advice: “How can I drive change and influence teams…without power?”](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/05/drive-change-and-influence-teams-without-power/)
* [Influence Without Authority. One of the most common topics that… | by Gustavo de Lima | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/@gusdlim/influence-without-authority-e4c2971ca7b6)
* [How GitHub taught me to Micromanage — Matthew Rocklin](https://matthewrocklin.com/feedback.html)
* [DRMacIver’s Notebook: Taking responsibility for failure](https://notebook.drmaciver.com/posts/2024-02-06-10:51.html)
## Leadership & Development
* [Leaders Tackle Challenges Early](https://medium.com/management-matters/leaders-tackle-challenges-early-7ded27424cf9)
* [How to Take Personal Development Off the Backburner — Tactical Frameworks for Leveling Up](https://review.firstround.com/how-to-take-personal-development-off-the-backburner-tactical-frameworks-for-leveling-up)
* [The dark side of the leadership](https://elenaverna.substack.com/p/the-dark-side-of-the-leadership)
* [What I have been taught about leadership…](https://guynewey.medium.com/what-i-have-been-taught-about-leadership-year-1-170c55b634dc)
* [Open Leadership Training Series](https://mozilla.github.io/open-leadership-training-series/)
* [The Signs of a Good CEO. Five Essential Features | by Roger Martin | Oct, 2024 | Medium](https://rogermartin.medium.com/the-signs-of-a-good-ceo-160a73656cf9)
* [things I learned from my ex-boss Dinesh - @visakanv’s blog](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/dinesh/)
* [A Practical Guide to Executive Presence: Earning Respect | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/leadership/2024/11/19/executive-presence-part-2.html?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Clear Thinking: Your Secret Weapon Against Leadership Stress – Scott Cochrane](https://scottcochrane.com/index.php/2024/11/21/clear-thinking-your-secret-weapon-against-leadership-stress/)
* [Stop Overthinking, Start Leading: The Power of Taking the First Step | by Scott Lyons | Management Matters | Feb, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/stop-overthinking-start-leading-the-power-of-taking-the-first-step-e97b8a6cff20)
* [Why doing less makes you a better leader - Blog - Tech Leaders Launchpad](https://techleaderslaunchpad.com/resources/blog/why-doing-less-makes-you-a-better-leader)
* [Career Development: What It Really Means to be a Manager, Director, or VP - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2015/03/08/career-development-what-it-really-means-to-be-a-manager-director-or-vp/)
* [How to Hire a CEO. I often find boards of startups taking… | by Vinod Khosla | Jul, 2024 | Medium](https://medium.com/@vkhosla/how-to-hire-a-ceo-2912354ceca5)
* [All I Need to Know About Engineering Leadership I Learned From Leave No Trace - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2024/jul/12/lnt-for-engineering-leadership/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Typical First Years of Startup Engineering Leadership](https://marcgg.com/blog/2024/07/17/startup-technical-leadership/)
* [Lessons learned in 35 years of making software – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2024/07/03/lessons-learned-in-35-years-of-making-software/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Wrong Doors. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/no-wrong-doors/)
## Team Management & Dynamics
* [Helicopter Management and Other Mistakes](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/19/helicopter-management/)
* [How To Fix Broken Teams | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/management/2024/01/23/fix-teams.html)
* [Why Most Organizations Produce Brittle Teams Instead of Elastic Teams](https://mdalmijn.com/p/why-most-organizations-produce-brittle)
* [Rethinking Agile 1/3: Teams, Trust and Leadership | by Andrew Winnicki | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://andrewwinnicki.medium.com/rethinking-agile-1-3-teams-trust-and-leadership-ec8bee868915)
* [Managers Make Teams Deliver More Value, Not Deliver More Output](https://www.scarletink.com/p/managers-make-teams-deliver-more-value)
* [The Brilliant Jerk vs. Team Performance - Problem #3](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/the-brilliant-jerk-vs-team-performance)
* [Three Ways to Gain Visibility into Indirectly Managed Teams](https://softwareleads.substack.com/p/three-ways-to-gain-visibility-into)
* [Evolving annual reteaming at Redgate | by Chris Smith | Ingeniously Simple | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/ingeniouslysimple/evolving-annual-reteaming-at-redgate-8c7526be267f)
* [How to Use Delivery to Move from Blame to Trust - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/newsletter/2025/04/how-to-use-delivery-to-move-from-blame-to-trust/)
* [Managing Underperformers | Jack Danger](https://jackdanger.com/managing-underperformers/)
* [Creative Peer Recognition: How to Get Better at Team Celebration](https://letsgrowleaders.com/2024/07/08/creative-peer-recognition/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Micromanagement - The Absolute Worst? - Yaniv Preiss](https://yanivpreiss.com/2024/07/06/micromanagement-the-absolute-worst/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Forming, Storming, Dreaming, Performing — Gosei](https://gosei.eu/blog/orming/)
* [teambuilding / lower case opinions](https://lowercaseopinions.com/teambuilding)
* [How organisations cripple engineering teams with good intentions](https://varoa.net/2024/01/09/how-organisations-cripple-engineering-teams-with-good-intentions.html)
## Goals, Strategy & Planning
* [OKRs as a strategy debugger (& sandwich maker)](https://www.allankelly.net/archives/7464/okrs-as-a-strategy-debugger-sandwich-maker/)
* [Good Goals/Bad Goals](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-216-good-goalsbad-goals)
* [TBM 324: Goal-O-Rama - by John Cutler - The Beautiful Mess](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-324-goal-o-rama)
* [How to Reduce Planning, Deliver More, and Surprisingly, Reduce Pressure - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/mpd/2025/03/how-to-reduce-planning-deliver-more-and-surprisingly-reduce-pressure/)
* [TBM 383: Maximizers vs. Focusers - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-383-maximizers-vs-focusers)
* [I Like Dumb Plans - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/i-like-dumb-plans?publication_id=1461103)
* [TBM 234: Maintenance, KTLO, and BAU - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-234-maintenance-ktlo-and-bau)
* [TBM 235: Forms & Shadows - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-235-forms-and-shadows)
* [Strategy as a Series of Beliefs - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/05/12/strategy-as-a-series-of-beliefs/)
* [Your non-linear problem of 90% utilization](https://longform.asmartbear.com/utilization)
* [Roadmaps are tools - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/roadmaps/)
## Performance & Metrics
* [Evaluating Managers: 5 heuristics to measure managerial impact](https://abdulapopoola.com/2023/01/09/evaluating-managers-5-heuristics-to-measure-managerial-impact/)
* [Am I a Good Manager ?. If you find yourself asking this… | by That Crazy Moment | Medium](https://medium.com/@thatcrazymoment/am-i-a-good-manager-269d760c70a1)
* [People Success Performance Indicators | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/people-group/people-success-performance-indicators/)
* [Output vs. Outcomes - Problem #4 - by Mike Fisher](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/output-vs-outcomes-problem-4)
* [Selecting the right product metrics (KPIs)](https://longform.asmartbear.com/product-metrics/)
* [Product Principles | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/product/product-principles/)
* [Simple scorecards beat scales - Garry Shutler](https://gshutler.com/2023/08/simple-scorecards-beat-scales/)
## Communication & Collaboration
* [The subtle science of storytelling at work - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/communication/storytelling-at-work)
* [Communication Structures in a Growing Organization – Jessitron](https://jessitron.com/2024/11/24/communication-structures-in-a-growing-organization/)
* [The Precise Language Of Good Management - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/the-precise-language-of-good-management)
* [Nailing the basics: How to collaborate cross-functionally](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/nailing-the-basics-how-to-collaborate)
* [Playing defense: How to control the narrative if your work is being questioned](https://newsletter.weskao.com/p/playing-defense-how-to-control-narrative?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [How to Communicate When Trust Is Low (Without Digging Yourself Into A Deeper Hole) – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/08/17/how-to-communicate-when-trust-is-low-without-digging-yourself-into-a-deeper-hole/)
* [Fixing the fundamental problems of today’s remote meetings | Remeet — Incredibly fast and efficient meetings](https://www.remeet.com/whitepaper/)
## Delegation & Decision Making
* [Delegating Complex Tasks - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/delegating-complex-tasks)
* [Being in the details - by James Stanier](https://theengineeringmanager.substack.com/p/being-in-the-details)
## Organization & Culture
* [GitHub’s Engineering System Success Playbook - GitHub Resources](https://resources.github.com/engineering-system-success-playbook/)
* [Manage process before people](https://world.hey.com/dhh/manage-process-before-people-20736695)
* [Thriving in Chaos](https://medium.com/ni-tech-talk/thriving-in-chaos-f0d0e37ebfa3)
* [The Openverse - Open Source People & Culture Resources](https://www.openverse.fyi/)
* [When You Plateau, So Does Your Company](https://every.to/no-small-plans/a-founder-s-guide-to-expanding-your-comfort-zone)
* [Be a thermostat, not a thermometer](https://larahogan.me/blog/be-a-thermostat-not-a-thermometer/)
* [Thermostats | Another Rodeo](https://another.rodeo/thermostats/)
* [Design Your Organization for the Conflicts You Want to Hear About - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/10/12/design-your-organization-for-the-conflicts-you-want-to-hear-about/)
* [TBM 347: “Why Don’t Our Leaders Care About How We Work?”](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-347-why-dont-our-leaders-care)
* [TBM 336: Product OS Design Tips and Principles](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-336-product-os-design-tips-and)
* [Jade Rubick - Organizational work and the second job](https://www.rubick.com/organizational-work-second-job/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Meetings, No Deadlines, No Full-Time Employees](https://sahillavingia.com/work)
## Difficult Situations
* [The Surprising Benefits of Conflict in the Workplace](https://davidburkus.com/2023/06/the-surprising-benefits-of-conflict-in-the-workplace/)
* [How do you handle layoffs on a large scale?](https://medium.com/@eyalmrejen/how-do-you-handle-layoffs-on-a-large-scale-9f513f496659)
* [Managers Believe Downsizing Is Effective. Research… | Corporate Rebels](https://www.corporate-rebels.com/blog/managers-believe-downsizing-is-effective-research-says-nope)
* [Human flaws in management: Unintentionally leading employees from engagement to exhaustion | by Austin Mackesy-Buckley | Management Matters | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/human-flaws-in-management-unintentionally-leading-employees-from-engagement-to-exhaustion-f4d8138c80bb)
* [Are We Done Talking About Burnout Yet? Sadly, No](https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbesbusinesscouncil/2024/07/12/are-we-done-talking-about-burnout-yet-sadly-no/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Barriers to Change: Limiting Beliefs — NOBL](https://nobl.io/changemaker/change-barriers-limiting-beliefs/)
* [How to prepare for difficult conversations](https://www.stefanobaccianella.com/p/how-to-prepare-for-difficult-conversations)
* [The Silent Killer of Your Operating Practice: Fear](https://review.firstround.com/the-silent-killer-of-your-operating-practice-fear/)
* [Product Managing to Prevent Burnout | Honeycomb](https://www.honeycomb.io/blog/product-managing-prevent-burnout)
## Reviews & Meetings
* [A Guide to Running Outstanding Business Reviews](https://evidence.dev/blog/business-reviews/)
* [Get the Weekly Business Review App - Working Backwards](https://workingbackwards.com/wbr-app/)
## Specific Roles
* [5 Things Founders, Investors and Recruiters Should Know about the CTO role](https://medium.com/cto-as-a-service/5-things-founders-investors-and-recruiters-should-know-about-the-cto-role-a65d7bb66264)
* [7 proven mental models for engineering managers](https://zaidesanton.substack.com/p/mental-models-for-engineering-managers)
* [Explaining the role of a Delivery Manager – Emily Webber](https://emilywebber.co.uk/what-is-an-agile-delivery-manager/)
* [Hire for Floors, not Ceilings - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2023/aug/16/floors-not-ceilings/)
* [Introverted Engineering Managers Manage From The Background — Why That’s A Good Thing | by Alex Ponomarev | Engineering Manager’s Journal | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/engineering-managers-journal/introverted-engineering-managers-manage-from-the-background-why-thats-a-good-thing-502a9770e8fc)
* [Knowing where your engineer salary comes from | sean goedecke](https://www.seangoedecke.com/where-the-money-comes-from/)
* [The farther you go up the ladder, the less it’s about your technical skills – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2023/08/14/the-farther-you-go-up-the-ladder-the-less-its-about-your-technical-skills/)
* [What a CTO should know about tech | deadSimpleTech](https://deadsimpletech.com/blog/cto_tech_capabilities)
* [Why Should You (Or Anyone) Become An Engineering Manager? – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/12/15/why-should-you-or-anyone-become-an-engineering-manager/)
* [Questionable Advice: “My boss says we don’t need any engineering managers. Is he right?” – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2024/01/05/questionable-advice-my-boss-says-we-dont-need-any-engineering-managers-is-he-right/)
## Books & Resources
* [Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss 📚 log(book)](https://books.rixx.de/chris-voss/never-split-the-difference/)
* [Management Mantras - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/management-mantras)
## Misc
* [“Good engineering management” is a fad | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/good-eng-mgmt-is-a-fad/)
* [Why were you late?](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/late/)
* [A manager’s ultimate guide to effective succession planning - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/leadership/guide-to-effective-succession-planning)
* [Scale your impact as a manager—six areas where you need to do the heavy lifting - Management Excellence by Art Petty](https://artpetty.com/2025/01/19/career-scaling-your-impact/)
* [The Rise and Fall of the Blue-Collar Developers](https://2ndworst.dev/posts/rise-and-fall-blue-collar-developers/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Writers who operate. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/writers-who-operate/)
# index.html.md
# Art
We have a bunch of beautiful artwork at home,
and I wanted to catalog it.
## “High Kickin’” by Gary Hodges
## “Balancing Act” by Gary Hodges
## “Tiny Hippo And The Tiny Train” by Reza Farazmand
[https://poorlydrawnlines.com/comic/tiny-hippo-and-the-tiny-train/](https://poorlydrawnlines.com/comic/tiny-hippo-and-the-tiny-train/)
## “Jackass Penguin Group” by Gary Hodges
## “Her Majesty’s Theatre” by Peter Hannah
[https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/PeterHannahArt](https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/PeterHannahArt)
## “Emperor Penguins” by Gary Hodges
## “Swimming Polar Bear” by Gary Hodges
## “Tropical Slumber” by Gary Hodges
## Untitled Fish by Unknown
## “God Rest You Little Porcupine” by Chicken Scratch
[https://www.chickenscratch.co.uk/shop/god-rest-you-little-porcupine-print](https://www.chickenscratch.co.uk/shop/god-rest-you-little-porcupine-print)
## “Preening Partners” by Gary Hodges
## “Polar Bears” by Gary Hodges
## Unknown Lakehouse by Unknown
## “Tweet, tweet, tweet” by Kathryn Callaghan
Bought on our wedding day from the art gallery on King’s Parade, Cambridge
[https://irishartplus.com/products/tweet-tweet-tweet](https://irishartplus.com/products/tweet-tweet-tweet)
## “Sleepyhead” by Gary Hodges
## “The Winnies” by A. A. Milne and E. H. Shepard
Including quotes I used in my wedding vows
# index.html.md
# Management
Skews towards *engineering* management, but not exclusively.
See also [Hiring](../hiring/index.md).
## Onboarding
* [https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483](https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483)
* [Onboarding EMs - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/onboarding-ems/)
## Feedback
* [How can you make feedback conversations less painful?](https://medium.com/management-matters/how-can-you-make-feedback-conversations-less-painful-7dde58a944e4)
## Influence
* [How to be “high agency” at work - by Torsten Walbaum](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/how-to-be-high-agency-at-work)
* [Questionable Advice: “How can I drive change and influence teams…without power?”](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/05/drive-change-and-influence-teams-without-power/)
* [Influence Without Authority. One of the most common topics that… | by Gustavo de Lima | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/@gusdlim/influence-without-authority-e4c2971ca7b6)
* [How GitHub taught me to Micromanage — Matthew Rocklin](https://matthewrocklin.com/feedback.html)
* [DRMacIver’s Notebook: Taking responsibility for failure](https://notebook.drmaciver.com/posts/2024-02-06-10:51.html)
## Leadership & Development
* [Leaders Tackle Challenges Early](https://medium.com/management-matters/leaders-tackle-challenges-early-7ded27424cf9)
* [How to Take Personal Development Off the Backburner — Tactical Frameworks for Leveling Up](https://review.firstround.com/how-to-take-personal-development-off-the-backburner-tactical-frameworks-for-leveling-up)
* [The dark side of the leadership](https://elenaverna.substack.com/p/the-dark-side-of-the-leadership)
* [What I have been taught about leadership…](https://guynewey.medium.com/what-i-have-been-taught-about-leadership-year-1-170c55b634dc)
* [Open Leadership Training Series](https://mozilla.github.io/open-leadership-training-series/)
* [The Signs of a Good CEO. Five Essential Features | by Roger Martin | Oct, 2024 | Medium](https://rogermartin.medium.com/the-signs-of-a-good-ceo-160a73656cf9)
* [things I learned from my ex-boss Dinesh - @visakanv’s blog](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/dinesh/)
* [A Practical Guide to Executive Presence: Earning Respect | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/leadership/2024/11/19/executive-presence-part-2.html?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Clear Thinking: Your Secret Weapon Against Leadership Stress – Scott Cochrane](https://scottcochrane.com/index.php/2024/11/21/clear-thinking-your-secret-weapon-against-leadership-stress/)
* [Stop Overthinking, Start Leading: The Power of Taking the First Step | by Scott Lyons | Management Matters | Feb, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/stop-overthinking-start-leading-the-power-of-taking-the-first-step-e97b8a6cff20)
* [Why doing less makes you a better leader - Blog - Tech Leaders Launchpad](https://techleaderslaunchpad.com/resources/blog/why-doing-less-makes-you-a-better-leader)
* [Career Development: What It Really Means to be a Manager, Director, or VP - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2015/03/08/career-development-what-it-really-means-to-be-a-manager-director-or-vp/)
* [How to Hire a CEO. I often find boards of startups taking… | by Vinod Khosla | Jul, 2024 | Medium](https://medium.com/@vkhosla/how-to-hire-a-ceo-2912354ceca5)
* [All I Need to Know About Engineering Leadership I Learned From Leave No Trace - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2024/jul/12/lnt-for-engineering-leadership/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Typical First Years of Startup Engineering Leadership](https://marcgg.com/blog/2024/07/17/startup-technical-leadership/)
* [Lessons learned in 35 years of making software – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2024/07/03/lessons-learned-in-35-years-of-making-software/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Wrong Doors. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/no-wrong-doors/)
## Team Management & Dynamics
* [Helicopter Management and Other Mistakes](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/19/helicopter-management/)
* [How To Fix Broken Teams | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/management/2024/01/23/fix-teams.html)
* [Why Most Organizations Produce Brittle Teams Instead of Elastic Teams](https://mdalmijn.com/p/why-most-organizations-produce-brittle)
* [Rethinking Agile 1/3: Teams, Trust and Leadership | by Andrew Winnicki | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://andrewwinnicki.medium.com/rethinking-agile-1-3-teams-trust-and-leadership-ec8bee868915)
* [Managers Make Teams Deliver More Value, Not Deliver More Output](https://www.scarletink.com/p/managers-make-teams-deliver-more-value)
* [The Brilliant Jerk vs. Team Performance - Problem #3](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/the-brilliant-jerk-vs-team-performance)
* [Three Ways to Gain Visibility into Indirectly Managed Teams](https://softwareleads.substack.com/p/three-ways-to-gain-visibility-into)
* [Evolving annual reteaming at Redgate | by Chris Smith | Ingeniously Simple | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/ingeniouslysimple/evolving-annual-reteaming-at-redgate-8c7526be267f)
* [How to Use Delivery to Move from Blame to Trust - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/newsletter/2025/04/how-to-use-delivery-to-move-from-blame-to-trust/)
* [Managing Underperformers | Jack Danger](https://jackdanger.com/managing-underperformers/)
* [Creative Peer Recognition: How to Get Better at Team Celebration](https://letsgrowleaders.com/2024/07/08/creative-peer-recognition/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Micromanagement - The Absolute Worst? - Yaniv Preiss](https://yanivpreiss.com/2024/07/06/micromanagement-the-absolute-worst/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Forming, Storming, Dreaming, Performing — Gosei](https://gosei.eu/blog/orming/)
* [teambuilding / lower case opinions](https://lowercaseopinions.com/teambuilding)
* [How organisations cripple engineering teams with good intentions](https://varoa.net/2024/01/09/how-organisations-cripple-engineering-teams-with-good-intentions.html)
## Goals, Strategy & Planning
* [OKRs as a strategy debugger (& sandwich maker)](https://www.allankelly.net/archives/7464/okrs-as-a-strategy-debugger-sandwich-maker/)
* [Good Goals/Bad Goals](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-216-good-goalsbad-goals)
* [TBM 324: Goal-O-Rama - by John Cutler - The Beautiful Mess](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-324-goal-o-rama)
* [How to Reduce Planning, Deliver More, and Surprisingly, Reduce Pressure - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/mpd/2025/03/how-to-reduce-planning-deliver-more-and-surprisingly-reduce-pressure/)
* [TBM 383: Maximizers vs. Focusers - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-383-maximizers-vs-focusers)
* [I Like Dumb Plans - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/i-like-dumb-plans?publication_id=1461103)
* [TBM 234: Maintenance, KTLO, and BAU - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-234-maintenance-ktlo-and-bau)
* [TBM 235: Forms & Shadows - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-235-forms-and-shadows)
* [Strategy as a Series of Beliefs - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/05/12/strategy-as-a-series-of-beliefs/)
* [Your non-linear problem of 90% utilization](https://longform.asmartbear.com/utilization)
* [Roadmaps are tools - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/roadmaps/)
## Performance & Metrics
* [Evaluating Managers: 5 heuristics to measure managerial impact](https://abdulapopoola.com/2023/01/09/evaluating-managers-5-heuristics-to-measure-managerial-impact/)
* [Am I a Good Manager ?. If you find yourself asking this… | by That Crazy Moment | Medium](https://medium.com/@thatcrazymoment/am-i-a-good-manager-269d760c70a1)
* [People Success Performance Indicators | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/people-group/people-success-performance-indicators/)
* [Output vs. Outcomes - Problem #4 - by Mike Fisher](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/output-vs-outcomes-problem-4)
* [Selecting the right product metrics (KPIs)](https://longform.asmartbear.com/product-metrics/)
* [Product Principles | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/product/product-principles/)
* [Simple scorecards beat scales - Garry Shutler](https://gshutler.com/2023/08/simple-scorecards-beat-scales/)
## Communication & Collaboration
* [The subtle science of storytelling at work - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/communication/storytelling-at-work)
* [Communication Structures in a Growing Organization – Jessitron](https://jessitron.com/2024/11/24/communication-structures-in-a-growing-organization/)
* [The Precise Language Of Good Management - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/the-precise-language-of-good-management)
* [Nailing the basics: How to collaborate cross-functionally](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/nailing-the-basics-how-to-collaborate)
* [Playing defense: How to control the narrative if your work is being questioned](https://newsletter.weskao.com/p/playing-defense-how-to-control-narrative?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [How to Communicate When Trust Is Low (Without Digging Yourself Into A Deeper Hole) – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/08/17/how-to-communicate-when-trust-is-low-without-digging-yourself-into-a-deeper-hole/)
* [Fixing the fundamental problems of today’s remote meetings | Remeet — Incredibly fast and efficient meetings](https://www.remeet.com/whitepaper/)
## Delegation & Decision Making
* [Delegating Complex Tasks - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/delegating-complex-tasks)
* [Being in the details - by James Stanier](https://theengineeringmanager.substack.com/p/being-in-the-details)
## Organization & Culture
* [GitHub’s Engineering System Success Playbook - GitHub Resources](https://resources.github.com/engineering-system-success-playbook/)
* [Manage process before people](https://world.hey.com/dhh/manage-process-before-people-20736695)
* [Thriving in Chaos](https://medium.com/ni-tech-talk/thriving-in-chaos-f0d0e37ebfa3)
* [The Openverse - Open Source People & Culture Resources](https://www.openverse.fyi/)
* [When You Plateau, So Does Your Company](https://every.to/no-small-plans/a-founder-s-guide-to-expanding-your-comfort-zone)
* [Be a thermostat, not a thermometer](https://larahogan.me/blog/be-a-thermostat-not-a-thermometer/)
* [Thermostats | Another Rodeo](https://another.rodeo/thermostats/)
* [Design Your Organization for the Conflicts You Want to Hear About - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/10/12/design-your-organization-for-the-conflicts-you-want-to-hear-about/)
* [TBM 347: “Why Don’t Our Leaders Care About How We Work?”](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-347-why-dont-our-leaders-care)
* [TBM 336: Product OS Design Tips and Principles](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-336-product-os-design-tips-and)
* [Jade Rubick - Organizational work and the second job](https://www.rubick.com/organizational-work-second-job/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Meetings, No Deadlines, No Full-Time Employees](https://sahillavingia.com/work)
## Difficult Situations
* [The Surprising Benefits of Conflict in the Workplace](https://davidburkus.com/2023/06/the-surprising-benefits-of-conflict-in-the-workplace/)
* [How do you handle layoffs on a large scale?](https://medium.com/@eyalmrejen/how-do-you-handle-layoffs-on-a-large-scale-9f513f496659)
* [Managers Believe Downsizing Is Effective. Research… | Corporate Rebels](https://www.corporate-rebels.com/blog/managers-believe-downsizing-is-effective-research-says-nope)
* [Human flaws in management: Unintentionally leading employees from engagement to exhaustion | by Austin Mackesy-Buckley | Management Matters | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/human-flaws-in-management-unintentionally-leading-employees-from-engagement-to-exhaustion-f4d8138c80bb)
* [Are We Done Talking About Burnout Yet? Sadly, No](https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbesbusinesscouncil/2024/07/12/are-we-done-talking-about-burnout-yet-sadly-no/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Barriers to Change: Limiting Beliefs — NOBL](https://nobl.io/changemaker/change-barriers-limiting-beliefs/)
* [How to prepare for difficult conversations](https://www.stefanobaccianella.com/p/how-to-prepare-for-difficult-conversations)
* [The Silent Killer of Your Operating Practice: Fear](https://review.firstround.com/the-silent-killer-of-your-operating-practice-fear/)
* [Product Managing to Prevent Burnout | Honeycomb](https://www.honeycomb.io/blog/product-managing-prevent-burnout)
## Reviews & Meetings
* [A Guide to Running Outstanding Business Reviews](https://evidence.dev/blog/business-reviews/)
* [Get the Weekly Business Review App - Working Backwards](https://workingbackwards.com/wbr-app/)
## Specific Roles
* [5 Things Founders, Investors and Recruiters Should Know about the CTO role](https://medium.com/cto-as-a-service/5-things-founders-investors-and-recruiters-should-know-about-the-cto-role-a65d7bb66264)
* [7 proven mental models for engineering managers](https://zaidesanton.substack.com/p/mental-models-for-engineering-managers)
* [Explaining the role of a Delivery Manager – Emily Webber](https://emilywebber.co.uk/what-is-an-agile-delivery-manager/)
* [Hire for Floors, not Ceilings - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2023/aug/16/floors-not-ceilings/)
* [Introverted Engineering Managers Manage From The Background — Why That’s A Good Thing | by Alex Ponomarev | Engineering Manager’s Journal | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/engineering-managers-journal/introverted-engineering-managers-manage-from-the-background-why-thats-a-good-thing-502a9770e8fc)
* [Knowing where your engineer salary comes from | sean goedecke](https://www.seangoedecke.com/where-the-money-comes-from/)
* [The farther you go up the ladder, the less it’s about your technical skills – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2023/08/14/the-farther-you-go-up-the-ladder-the-less-its-about-your-technical-skills/)
* [What a CTO should know about tech | deadSimpleTech](https://deadsimpletech.com/blog/cto_tech_capabilities)
* [Why Should You (Or Anyone) Become An Engineering Manager? – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/12/15/why-should-you-or-anyone-become-an-engineering-manager/)
* [Questionable Advice: “My boss says we don’t need any engineering managers. Is he right?” – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2024/01/05/questionable-advice-my-boss-says-we-dont-need-any-engineering-managers-is-he-right/)
## Books & Resources
* [Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss 📚 log(book)](https://books.rixx.de/chris-voss/never-split-the-difference/)
* [Management Mantras - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/management-mantras)
## Misc
* [“Good engineering management” is a fad | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/good-eng-mgmt-is-a-fad/)
* [Why were you late?](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/late/)
* [A manager’s ultimate guide to effective succession planning - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/leadership/guide-to-effective-succession-planning)
* [Scale your impact as a manager—six areas where you need to do the heavy lifting - Management Excellence by Art Petty](https://artpetty.com/2025/01/19/career-scaling-your-impact/)
* [The Rise and Fall of the Blue-Collar Developers](https://2ndworst.dev/posts/rise-and-fall-blue-collar-developers/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Writers who operate. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/writers-who-operate/)
# index.html.md
# Management
Skews towards *engineering* management, but not exclusively.
See also [Hiring](../hiring/index.md).
## Onboarding
* [https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483](https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483)
* [Onboarding EMs - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/onboarding-ems/)
## Feedback
* [How can you make feedback conversations less painful?](https://medium.com/management-matters/how-can-you-make-feedback-conversations-less-painful-7dde58a944e4)
## Influence
* [How to be “high agency” at work - by Torsten Walbaum](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/how-to-be-high-agency-at-work)
* [Questionable Advice: “How can I drive change and influence teams…without power?”](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/05/drive-change-and-influence-teams-without-power/)
* [Influence Without Authority. One of the most common topics that… | by Gustavo de Lima | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/@gusdlim/influence-without-authority-e4c2971ca7b6)
* [How GitHub taught me to Micromanage — Matthew Rocklin](https://matthewrocklin.com/feedback.html)
* [DRMacIver’s Notebook: Taking responsibility for failure](https://notebook.drmaciver.com/posts/2024-02-06-10:51.html)
## Leadership & Development
* [Leaders Tackle Challenges Early](https://medium.com/management-matters/leaders-tackle-challenges-early-7ded27424cf9)
* [How to Take Personal Development Off the Backburner — Tactical Frameworks for Leveling Up](https://review.firstround.com/how-to-take-personal-development-off-the-backburner-tactical-frameworks-for-leveling-up)
* [The dark side of the leadership](https://elenaverna.substack.com/p/the-dark-side-of-the-leadership)
* [What I have been taught about leadership…](https://guynewey.medium.com/what-i-have-been-taught-about-leadership-year-1-170c55b634dc)
* [Open Leadership Training Series](https://mozilla.github.io/open-leadership-training-series/)
* [The Signs of a Good CEO. Five Essential Features | by Roger Martin | Oct, 2024 | Medium](https://rogermartin.medium.com/the-signs-of-a-good-ceo-160a73656cf9)
* [things I learned from my ex-boss Dinesh - @visakanv’s blog](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/dinesh/)
* [A Practical Guide to Executive Presence: Earning Respect | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/leadership/2024/11/19/executive-presence-part-2.html?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Clear Thinking: Your Secret Weapon Against Leadership Stress – Scott Cochrane](https://scottcochrane.com/index.php/2024/11/21/clear-thinking-your-secret-weapon-against-leadership-stress/)
* [Stop Overthinking, Start Leading: The Power of Taking the First Step | by Scott Lyons | Management Matters | Feb, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/stop-overthinking-start-leading-the-power-of-taking-the-first-step-e97b8a6cff20)
* [Why doing less makes you a better leader - Blog - Tech Leaders Launchpad](https://techleaderslaunchpad.com/resources/blog/why-doing-less-makes-you-a-better-leader)
* [Career Development: What It Really Means to be a Manager, Director, or VP - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2015/03/08/career-development-what-it-really-means-to-be-a-manager-director-or-vp/)
* [How to Hire a CEO. I often find boards of startups taking… | by Vinod Khosla | Jul, 2024 | Medium](https://medium.com/@vkhosla/how-to-hire-a-ceo-2912354ceca5)
* [All I Need to Know About Engineering Leadership I Learned From Leave No Trace - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2024/jul/12/lnt-for-engineering-leadership/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Typical First Years of Startup Engineering Leadership](https://marcgg.com/blog/2024/07/17/startup-technical-leadership/)
* [Lessons learned in 35 years of making software – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2024/07/03/lessons-learned-in-35-years-of-making-software/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Wrong Doors. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/no-wrong-doors/)
## Team Management & Dynamics
* [Helicopter Management and Other Mistakes](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/19/helicopter-management/)
* [How To Fix Broken Teams | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/management/2024/01/23/fix-teams.html)
* [Why Most Organizations Produce Brittle Teams Instead of Elastic Teams](https://mdalmijn.com/p/why-most-organizations-produce-brittle)
* [Rethinking Agile 1/3: Teams, Trust and Leadership | by Andrew Winnicki | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://andrewwinnicki.medium.com/rethinking-agile-1-3-teams-trust-and-leadership-ec8bee868915)
* [Managers Make Teams Deliver More Value, Not Deliver More Output](https://www.scarletink.com/p/managers-make-teams-deliver-more-value)
* [The Brilliant Jerk vs. Team Performance - Problem #3](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/the-brilliant-jerk-vs-team-performance)
* [Three Ways to Gain Visibility into Indirectly Managed Teams](https://softwareleads.substack.com/p/three-ways-to-gain-visibility-into)
* [Evolving annual reteaming at Redgate | by Chris Smith | Ingeniously Simple | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/ingeniouslysimple/evolving-annual-reteaming-at-redgate-8c7526be267f)
* [How to Use Delivery to Move from Blame to Trust - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/newsletter/2025/04/how-to-use-delivery-to-move-from-blame-to-trust/)
* [Managing Underperformers | Jack Danger](https://jackdanger.com/managing-underperformers/)
* [Creative Peer Recognition: How to Get Better at Team Celebration](https://letsgrowleaders.com/2024/07/08/creative-peer-recognition/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Micromanagement - The Absolute Worst? - Yaniv Preiss](https://yanivpreiss.com/2024/07/06/micromanagement-the-absolute-worst/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Forming, Storming, Dreaming, Performing — Gosei](https://gosei.eu/blog/orming/)
* [teambuilding / lower case opinions](https://lowercaseopinions.com/teambuilding)
* [How organisations cripple engineering teams with good intentions](https://varoa.net/2024/01/09/how-organisations-cripple-engineering-teams-with-good-intentions.html)
## Goals, Strategy & Planning
* [OKRs as a strategy debugger (& sandwich maker)](https://www.allankelly.net/archives/7464/okrs-as-a-strategy-debugger-sandwich-maker/)
* [Good Goals/Bad Goals](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-216-good-goalsbad-goals)
* [TBM 324: Goal-O-Rama - by John Cutler - The Beautiful Mess](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-324-goal-o-rama)
* [How to Reduce Planning, Deliver More, and Surprisingly, Reduce Pressure - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/mpd/2025/03/how-to-reduce-planning-deliver-more-and-surprisingly-reduce-pressure/)
* [TBM 383: Maximizers vs. Focusers - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-383-maximizers-vs-focusers)
* [I Like Dumb Plans - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/i-like-dumb-plans?publication_id=1461103)
* [TBM 234: Maintenance, KTLO, and BAU - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-234-maintenance-ktlo-and-bau)
* [TBM 235: Forms & Shadows - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-235-forms-and-shadows)
* [Strategy as a Series of Beliefs - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/05/12/strategy-as-a-series-of-beliefs/)
* [Your non-linear problem of 90% utilization](https://longform.asmartbear.com/utilization)
* [Roadmaps are tools - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/roadmaps/)
## Performance & Metrics
* [Evaluating Managers: 5 heuristics to measure managerial impact](https://abdulapopoola.com/2023/01/09/evaluating-managers-5-heuristics-to-measure-managerial-impact/)
* [Am I a Good Manager ?. If you find yourself asking this… | by That Crazy Moment | Medium](https://medium.com/@thatcrazymoment/am-i-a-good-manager-269d760c70a1)
* [People Success Performance Indicators | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/people-group/people-success-performance-indicators/)
* [Output vs. Outcomes - Problem #4 - by Mike Fisher](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/output-vs-outcomes-problem-4)
* [Selecting the right product metrics (KPIs)](https://longform.asmartbear.com/product-metrics/)
* [Product Principles | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/product/product-principles/)
* [Simple scorecards beat scales - Garry Shutler](https://gshutler.com/2023/08/simple-scorecards-beat-scales/)
## Communication & Collaboration
* [The subtle science of storytelling at work - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/communication/storytelling-at-work)
* [Communication Structures in a Growing Organization – Jessitron](https://jessitron.com/2024/11/24/communication-structures-in-a-growing-organization/)
* [The Precise Language Of Good Management - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/the-precise-language-of-good-management)
* [Nailing the basics: How to collaborate cross-functionally](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/nailing-the-basics-how-to-collaborate)
* [Playing defense: How to control the narrative if your work is being questioned](https://newsletter.weskao.com/p/playing-defense-how-to-control-narrative?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [How to Communicate When Trust Is Low (Without Digging Yourself Into A Deeper Hole) – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/08/17/how-to-communicate-when-trust-is-low-without-digging-yourself-into-a-deeper-hole/)
* [Fixing the fundamental problems of today’s remote meetings | Remeet — Incredibly fast and efficient meetings](https://www.remeet.com/whitepaper/)
## Delegation & Decision Making
* [Delegating Complex Tasks - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/delegating-complex-tasks)
* [Being in the details - by James Stanier](https://theengineeringmanager.substack.com/p/being-in-the-details)
## Organization & Culture
* [GitHub’s Engineering System Success Playbook - GitHub Resources](https://resources.github.com/engineering-system-success-playbook/)
* [Manage process before people](https://world.hey.com/dhh/manage-process-before-people-20736695)
* [Thriving in Chaos](https://medium.com/ni-tech-talk/thriving-in-chaos-f0d0e37ebfa3)
* [The Openverse - Open Source People & Culture Resources](https://www.openverse.fyi/)
* [When You Plateau, So Does Your Company](https://every.to/no-small-plans/a-founder-s-guide-to-expanding-your-comfort-zone)
* [Be a thermostat, not a thermometer](https://larahogan.me/blog/be-a-thermostat-not-a-thermometer/)
* [Thermostats | Another Rodeo](https://another.rodeo/thermostats/)
* [Design Your Organization for the Conflicts You Want to Hear About - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/10/12/design-your-organization-for-the-conflicts-you-want-to-hear-about/)
* [TBM 347: “Why Don’t Our Leaders Care About How We Work?”](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-347-why-dont-our-leaders-care)
* [TBM 336: Product OS Design Tips and Principles](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-336-product-os-design-tips-and)
* [Jade Rubick - Organizational work and the second job](https://www.rubick.com/organizational-work-second-job/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Meetings, No Deadlines, No Full-Time Employees](https://sahillavingia.com/work)
## Difficult Situations
* [The Surprising Benefits of Conflict in the Workplace](https://davidburkus.com/2023/06/the-surprising-benefits-of-conflict-in-the-workplace/)
* [How do you handle layoffs on a large scale?](https://medium.com/@eyalmrejen/how-do-you-handle-layoffs-on-a-large-scale-9f513f496659)
* [Managers Believe Downsizing Is Effective. Research… | Corporate Rebels](https://www.corporate-rebels.com/blog/managers-believe-downsizing-is-effective-research-says-nope)
* [Human flaws in management: Unintentionally leading employees from engagement to exhaustion | by Austin Mackesy-Buckley | Management Matters | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/human-flaws-in-management-unintentionally-leading-employees-from-engagement-to-exhaustion-f4d8138c80bb)
* [Are We Done Talking About Burnout Yet? Sadly, No](https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbesbusinesscouncil/2024/07/12/are-we-done-talking-about-burnout-yet-sadly-no/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Barriers to Change: Limiting Beliefs — NOBL](https://nobl.io/changemaker/change-barriers-limiting-beliefs/)
* [How to prepare for difficult conversations](https://www.stefanobaccianella.com/p/how-to-prepare-for-difficult-conversations)
* [The Silent Killer of Your Operating Practice: Fear](https://review.firstround.com/the-silent-killer-of-your-operating-practice-fear/)
* [Product Managing to Prevent Burnout | Honeycomb](https://www.honeycomb.io/blog/product-managing-prevent-burnout)
## Reviews & Meetings
* [A Guide to Running Outstanding Business Reviews](https://evidence.dev/blog/business-reviews/)
* [Get the Weekly Business Review App - Working Backwards](https://workingbackwards.com/wbr-app/)
## Specific Roles
* [5 Things Founders, Investors and Recruiters Should Know about the CTO role](https://medium.com/cto-as-a-service/5-things-founders-investors-and-recruiters-should-know-about-the-cto-role-a65d7bb66264)
* [7 proven mental models for engineering managers](https://zaidesanton.substack.com/p/mental-models-for-engineering-managers)
* [Explaining the role of a Delivery Manager – Emily Webber](https://emilywebber.co.uk/what-is-an-agile-delivery-manager/)
* [Hire for Floors, not Ceilings - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2023/aug/16/floors-not-ceilings/)
* [Introverted Engineering Managers Manage From The Background — Why That’s A Good Thing | by Alex Ponomarev | Engineering Manager’s Journal | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/engineering-managers-journal/introverted-engineering-managers-manage-from-the-background-why-thats-a-good-thing-502a9770e8fc)
* [Knowing where your engineer salary comes from | sean goedecke](https://www.seangoedecke.com/where-the-money-comes-from/)
* [The farther you go up the ladder, the less it’s about your technical skills – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2023/08/14/the-farther-you-go-up-the-ladder-the-less-its-about-your-technical-skills/)
* [What a CTO should know about tech | deadSimpleTech](https://deadsimpletech.com/blog/cto_tech_capabilities)
* [Why Should You (Or Anyone) Become An Engineering Manager? – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/12/15/why-should-you-or-anyone-become-an-engineering-manager/)
* [Questionable Advice: “My boss says we don’t need any engineering managers. Is he right?” – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2024/01/05/questionable-advice-my-boss-says-we-dont-need-any-engineering-managers-is-he-right/)
## Books & Resources
* [Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss 📚 log(book)](https://books.rixx.de/chris-voss/never-split-the-difference/)
* [Management Mantras - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/management-mantras)
## Misc
* [“Good engineering management” is a fad | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/good-eng-mgmt-is-a-fad/)
* [Why were you late?](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/late/)
* [A manager’s ultimate guide to effective succession planning - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/leadership/guide-to-effective-succession-planning)
* [Scale your impact as a manager—six areas where you need to do the heavy lifting - Management Excellence by Art Petty](https://artpetty.com/2025/01/19/career-scaling-your-impact/)
* [The Rise and Fall of the Blue-Collar Developers](https://2ndworst.dev/posts/rise-and-fall-blue-collar-developers/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Writers who operate. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/writers-who-operate/)
# index.html.md
# Management
Skews towards *engineering* management, but not exclusively.
See also [Hiring](../hiring/index.md).
## Onboarding
* [https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483](https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483)
* [Onboarding EMs - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/onboarding-ems/)
## Feedback
* [How can you make feedback conversations less painful?](https://medium.com/management-matters/how-can-you-make-feedback-conversations-less-painful-7dde58a944e4)
## Influence
* [How to be “high agency” at work - by Torsten Walbaum](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/how-to-be-high-agency-at-work)
* [Questionable Advice: “How can I drive change and influence teams…without power?”](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/05/drive-change-and-influence-teams-without-power/)
* [Influence Without Authority. One of the most common topics that… | by Gustavo de Lima | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/@gusdlim/influence-without-authority-e4c2971ca7b6)
* [How GitHub taught me to Micromanage — Matthew Rocklin](https://matthewrocklin.com/feedback.html)
* [DRMacIver’s Notebook: Taking responsibility for failure](https://notebook.drmaciver.com/posts/2024-02-06-10:51.html)
## Leadership & Development
* [Leaders Tackle Challenges Early](https://medium.com/management-matters/leaders-tackle-challenges-early-7ded27424cf9)
* [How to Take Personal Development Off the Backburner — Tactical Frameworks for Leveling Up](https://review.firstround.com/how-to-take-personal-development-off-the-backburner-tactical-frameworks-for-leveling-up)
* [The dark side of the leadership](https://elenaverna.substack.com/p/the-dark-side-of-the-leadership)
* [What I have been taught about leadership…](https://guynewey.medium.com/what-i-have-been-taught-about-leadership-year-1-170c55b634dc)
* [Open Leadership Training Series](https://mozilla.github.io/open-leadership-training-series/)
* [The Signs of a Good CEO. Five Essential Features | by Roger Martin | Oct, 2024 | Medium](https://rogermartin.medium.com/the-signs-of-a-good-ceo-160a73656cf9)
* [things I learned from my ex-boss Dinesh - @visakanv’s blog](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/dinesh/)
* [A Practical Guide to Executive Presence: Earning Respect | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/leadership/2024/11/19/executive-presence-part-2.html?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Clear Thinking: Your Secret Weapon Against Leadership Stress – Scott Cochrane](https://scottcochrane.com/index.php/2024/11/21/clear-thinking-your-secret-weapon-against-leadership-stress/)
* [Stop Overthinking, Start Leading: The Power of Taking the First Step | by Scott Lyons | Management Matters | Feb, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/stop-overthinking-start-leading-the-power-of-taking-the-first-step-e97b8a6cff20)
* [Why doing less makes you a better leader - Blog - Tech Leaders Launchpad](https://techleaderslaunchpad.com/resources/blog/why-doing-less-makes-you-a-better-leader)
* [Career Development: What It Really Means to be a Manager, Director, or VP - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2015/03/08/career-development-what-it-really-means-to-be-a-manager-director-or-vp/)
* [How to Hire a CEO. I often find boards of startups taking… | by Vinod Khosla | Jul, 2024 | Medium](https://medium.com/@vkhosla/how-to-hire-a-ceo-2912354ceca5)
* [All I Need to Know About Engineering Leadership I Learned From Leave No Trace - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2024/jul/12/lnt-for-engineering-leadership/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Typical First Years of Startup Engineering Leadership](https://marcgg.com/blog/2024/07/17/startup-technical-leadership/)
* [Lessons learned in 35 years of making software – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2024/07/03/lessons-learned-in-35-years-of-making-software/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Wrong Doors. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/no-wrong-doors/)
## Team Management & Dynamics
* [Helicopter Management and Other Mistakes](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/19/helicopter-management/)
* [How To Fix Broken Teams | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/management/2024/01/23/fix-teams.html)
* [Why Most Organizations Produce Brittle Teams Instead of Elastic Teams](https://mdalmijn.com/p/why-most-organizations-produce-brittle)
* [Rethinking Agile 1/3: Teams, Trust and Leadership | by Andrew Winnicki | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://andrewwinnicki.medium.com/rethinking-agile-1-3-teams-trust-and-leadership-ec8bee868915)
* [Managers Make Teams Deliver More Value, Not Deliver More Output](https://www.scarletink.com/p/managers-make-teams-deliver-more-value)
* [The Brilliant Jerk vs. Team Performance - Problem #3](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/the-brilliant-jerk-vs-team-performance)
* [Three Ways to Gain Visibility into Indirectly Managed Teams](https://softwareleads.substack.com/p/three-ways-to-gain-visibility-into)
* [Evolving annual reteaming at Redgate | by Chris Smith | Ingeniously Simple | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/ingeniouslysimple/evolving-annual-reteaming-at-redgate-8c7526be267f)
* [How to Use Delivery to Move from Blame to Trust - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/newsletter/2025/04/how-to-use-delivery-to-move-from-blame-to-trust/)
* [Managing Underperformers | Jack Danger](https://jackdanger.com/managing-underperformers/)
* [Creative Peer Recognition: How to Get Better at Team Celebration](https://letsgrowleaders.com/2024/07/08/creative-peer-recognition/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Micromanagement - The Absolute Worst? - Yaniv Preiss](https://yanivpreiss.com/2024/07/06/micromanagement-the-absolute-worst/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Forming, Storming, Dreaming, Performing — Gosei](https://gosei.eu/blog/orming/)
* [teambuilding / lower case opinions](https://lowercaseopinions.com/teambuilding)
* [How organisations cripple engineering teams with good intentions](https://varoa.net/2024/01/09/how-organisations-cripple-engineering-teams-with-good-intentions.html)
## Goals, Strategy & Planning
* [OKRs as a strategy debugger (& sandwich maker)](https://www.allankelly.net/archives/7464/okrs-as-a-strategy-debugger-sandwich-maker/)
* [Good Goals/Bad Goals](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-216-good-goalsbad-goals)
* [TBM 324: Goal-O-Rama - by John Cutler - The Beautiful Mess](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-324-goal-o-rama)
* [How to Reduce Planning, Deliver More, and Surprisingly, Reduce Pressure - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/mpd/2025/03/how-to-reduce-planning-deliver-more-and-surprisingly-reduce-pressure/)
* [TBM 383: Maximizers vs. Focusers - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-383-maximizers-vs-focusers)
* [I Like Dumb Plans - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/i-like-dumb-plans?publication_id=1461103)
* [TBM 234: Maintenance, KTLO, and BAU - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-234-maintenance-ktlo-and-bau)
* [TBM 235: Forms & Shadows - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-235-forms-and-shadows)
* [Strategy as a Series of Beliefs - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/05/12/strategy-as-a-series-of-beliefs/)
* [Your non-linear problem of 90% utilization](https://longform.asmartbear.com/utilization)
* [Roadmaps are tools - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/roadmaps/)
## Performance & Metrics
* [Evaluating Managers: 5 heuristics to measure managerial impact](https://abdulapopoola.com/2023/01/09/evaluating-managers-5-heuristics-to-measure-managerial-impact/)
* [Am I a Good Manager ?. If you find yourself asking this… | by That Crazy Moment | Medium](https://medium.com/@thatcrazymoment/am-i-a-good-manager-269d760c70a1)
* [People Success Performance Indicators | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/people-group/people-success-performance-indicators/)
* [Output vs. Outcomes - Problem #4 - by Mike Fisher](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/output-vs-outcomes-problem-4)
* [Selecting the right product metrics (KPIs)](https://longform.asmartbear.com/product-metrics/)
* [Product Principles | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/product/product-principles/)
* [Simple scorecards beat scales - Garry Shutler](https://gshutler.com/2023/08/simple-scorecards-beat-scales/)
## Communication & Collaboration
* [The subtle science of storytelling at work - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/communication/storytelling-at-work)
* [Communication Structures in a Growing Organization – Jessitron](https://jessitron.com/2024/11/24/communication-structures-in-a-growing-organization/)
* [The Precise Language Of Good Management - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/the-precise-language-of-good-management)
* [Nailing the basics: How to collaborate cross-functionally](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/nailing-the-basics-how-to-collaborate)
* [Playing defense: How to control the narrative if your work is being questioned](https://newsletter.weskao.com/p/playing-defense-how-to-control-narrative?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [How to Communicate When Trust Is Low (Without Digging Yourself Into A Deeper Hole) – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/08/17/how-to-communicate-when-trust-is-low-without-digging-yourself-into-a-deeper-hole/)
* [Fixing the fundamental problems of today’s remote meetings | Remeet — Incredibly fast and efficient meetings](https://www.remeet.com/whitepaper/)
## Delegation & Decision Making
* [Delegating Complex Tasks - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/delegating-complex-tasks)
* [Being in the details - by James Stanier](https://theengineeringmanager.substack.com/p/being-in-the-details)
## Organization & Culture
* [GitHub’s Engineering System Success Playbook - GitHub Resources](https://resources.github.com/engineering-system-success-playbook/)
* [Manage process before people](https://world.hey.com/dhh/manage-process-before-people-20736695)
* [Thriving in Chaos](https://medium.com/ni-tech-talk/thriving-in-chaos-f0d0e37ebfa3)
* [The Openverse - Open Source People & Culture Resources](https://www.openverse.fyi/)
* [When You Plateau, So Does Your Company](https://every.to/no-small-plans/a-founder-s-guide-to-expanding-your-comfort-zone)
* [Be a thermostat, not a thermometer](https://larahogan.me/blog/be-a-thermostat-not-a-thermometer/)
* [Thermostats | Another Rodeo](https://another.rodeo/thermostats/)
* [Design Your Organization for the Conflicts You Want to Hear About - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/10/12/design-your-organization-for-the-conflicts-you-want-to-hear-about/)
* [TBM 347: “Why Don’t Our Leaders Care About How We Work?”](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-347-why-dont-our-leaders-care)
* [TBM 336: Product OS Design Tips and Principles](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-336-product-os-design-tips-and)
* [Jade Rubick - Organizational work and the second job](https://www.rubick.com/organizational-work-second-job/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Meetings, No Deadlines, No Full-Time Employees](https://sahillavingia.com/work)
## Difficult Situations
* [The Surprising Benefits of Conflict in the Workplace](https://davidburkus.com/2023/06/the-surprising-benefits-of-conflict-in-the-workplace/)
* [How do you handle layoffs on a large scale?](https://medium.com/@eyalmrejen/how-do-you-handle-layoffs-on-a-large-scale-9f513f496659)
* [Managers Believe Downsizing Is Effective. Research… | Corporate Rebels](https://www.corporate-rebels.com/blog/managers-believe-downsizing-is-effective-research-says-nope)
* [Human flaws in management: Unintentionally leading employees from engagement to exhaustion | by Austin Mackesy-Buckley | Management Matters | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/human-flaws-in-management-unintentionally-leading-employees-from-engagement-to-exhaustion-f4d8138c80bb)
* [Are We Done Talking About Burnout Yet? Sadly, No](https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbesbusinesscouncil/2024/07/12/are-we-done-talking-about-burnout-yet-sadly-no/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Barriers to Change: Limiting Beliefs — NOBL](https://nobl.io/changemaker/change-barriers-limiting-beliefs/)
* [How to prepare for difficult conversations](https://www.stefanobaccianella.com/p/how-to-prepare-for-difficult-conversations)
* [The Silent Killer of Your Operating Practice: Fear](https://review.firstround.com/the-silent-killer-of-your-operating-practice-fear/)
* [Product Managing to Prevent Burnout | Honeycomb](https://www.honeycomb.io/blog/product-managing-prevent-burnout)
## Reviews & Meetings
* [A Guide to Running Outstanding Business Reviews](https://evidence.dev/blog/business-reviews/)
* [Get the Weekly Business Review App - Working Backwards](https://workingbackwards.com/wbr-app/)
## Specific Roles
* [5 Things Founders, Investors and Recruiters Should Know about the CTO role](https://medium.com/cto-as-a-service/5-things-founders-investors-and-recruiters-should-know-about-the-cto-role-a65d7bb66264)
* [7 proven mental models for engineering managers](https://zaidesanton.substack.com/p/mental-models-for-engineering-managers)
* [Explaining the role of a Delivery Manager – Emily Webber](https://emilywebber.co.uk/what-is-an-agile-delivery-manager/)
* [Hire for Floors, not Ceilings - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2023/aug/16/floors-not-ceilings/)
* [Introverted Engineering Managers Manage From The Background — Why That’s A Good Thing | by Alex Ponomarev | Engineering Manager’s Journal | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/engineering-managers-journal/introverted-engineering-managers-manage-from-the-background-why-thats-a-good-thing-502a9770e8fc)
* [Knowing where your engineer salary comes from | sean goedecke](https://www.seangoedecke.com/where-the-money-comes-from/)
* [The farther you go up the ladder, the less it’s about your technical skills – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2023/08/14/the-farther-you-go-up-the-ladder-the-less-its-about-your-technical-skills/)
* [What a CTO should know about tech | deadSimpleTech](https://deadsimpletech.com/blog/cto_tech_capabilities)
* [Why Should You (Or Anyone) Become An Engineering Manager? – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/12/15/why-should-you-or-anyone-become-an-engineering-manager/)
* [Questionable Advice: “My boss says we don’t need any engineering managers. Is he right?” – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2024/01/05/questionable-advice-my-boss-says-we-dont-need-any-engineering-managers-is-he-right/)
## Books & Resources
* [Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss 📚 log(book)](https://books.rixx.de/chris-voss/never-split-the-difference/)
* [Management Mantras - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/management-mantras)
## Misc
* [“Good engineering management” is a fad | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/good-eng-mgmt-is-a-fad/)
* [Why were you late?](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/late/)
* [A manager’s ultimate guide to effective succession planning - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/leadership/guide-to-effective-succession-planning)
* [Scale your impact as a manager—six areas where you need to do the heavy lifting - Management Excellence by Art Petty](https://artpetty.com/2025/01/19/career-scaling-your-impact/)
* [The Rise and Fall of the Blue-Collar Developers](https://2ndworst.dev/posts/rise-and-fall-blue-collar-developers/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Writers who operate. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/writers-who-operate/)
# index.html.md
# Management
Skews towards *engineering* management, but not exclusively.
See also [Hiring](../hiring/index.md).
## Onboarding
* [https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483](https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483)
* [Onboarding EMs - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/onboarding-ems/)
## Feedback
* [How can you make feedback conversations less painful?](https://medium.com/management-matters/how-can-you-make-feedback-conversations-less-painful-7dde58a944e4)
## Influence
* [How to be “high agency” at work - by Torsten Walbaum](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/how-to-be-high-agency-at-work)
* [Questionable Advice: “How can I drive change and influence teams…without power?”](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/05/drive-change-and-influence-teams-without-power/)
* [Influence Without Authority. One of the most common topics that… | by Gustavo de Lima | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/@gusdlim/influence-without-authority-e4c2971ca7b6)
* [How GitHub taught me to Micromanage — Matthew Rocklin](https://matthewrocklin.com/feedback.html)
* [DRMacIver’s Notebook: Taking responsibility for failure](https://notebook.drmaciver.com/posts/2024-02-06-10:51.html)
## Leadership & Development
* [Leaders Tackle Challenges Early](https://medium.com/management-matters/leaders-tackle-challenges-early-7ded27424cf9)
* [How to Take Personal Development Off the Backburner — Tactical Frameworks for Leveling Up](https://review.firstround.com/how-to-take-personal-development-off-the-backburner-tactical-frameworks-for-leveling-up)
* [The dark side of the leadership](https://elenaverna.substack.com/p/the-dark-side-of-the-leadership)
* [What I have been taught about leadership…](https://guynewey.medium.com/what-i-have-been-taught-about-leadership-year-1-170c55b634dc)
* [Open Leadership Training Series](https://mozilla.github.io/open-leadership-training-series/)
* [The Signs of a Good CEO. Five Essential Features | by Roger Martin | Oct, 2024 | Medium](https://rogermartin.medium.com/the-signs-of-a-good-ceo-160a73656cf9)
* [things I learned from my ex-boss Dinesh - @visakanv’s blog](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/dinesh/)
* [A Practical Guide to Executive Presence: Earning Respect | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/leadership/2024/11/19/executive-presence-part-2.html?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Clear Thinking: Your Secret Weapon Against Leadership Stress – Scott Cochrane](https://scottcochrane.com/index.php/2024/11/21/clear-thinking-your-secret-weapon-against-leadership-stress/)
* [Stop Overthinking, Start Leading: The Power of Taking the First Step | by Scott Lyons | Management Matters | Feb, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/stop-overthinking-start-leading-the-power-of-taking-the-first-step-e97b8a6cff20)
* [Why doing less makes you a better leader - Blog - Tech Leaders Launchpad](https://techleaderslaunchpad.com/resources/blog/why-doing-less-makes-you-a-better-leader)
* [Career Development: What It Really Means to be a Manager, Director, or VP - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2015/03/08/career-development-what-it-really-means-to-be-a-manager-director-or-vp/)
* [How to Hire a CEO. I often find boards of startups taking… | by Vinod Khosla | Jul, 2024 | Medium](https://medium.com/@vkhosla/how-to-hire-a-ceo-2912354ceca5)
* [All I Need to Know About Engineering Leadership I Learned From Leave No Trace - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2024/jul/12/lnt-for-engineering-leadership/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Typical First Years of Startup Engineering Leadership](https://marcgg.com/blog/2024/07/17/startup-technical-leadership/)
* [Lessons learned in 35 years of making software – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2024/07/03/lessons-learned-in-35-years-of-making-software/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Wrong Doors. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/no-wrong-doors/)
## Team Management & Dynamics
* [Helicopter Management and Other Mistakes](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/19/helicopter-management/)
* [How To Fix Broken Teams | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/management/2024/01/23/fix-teams.html)
* [Why Most Organizations Produce Brittle Teams Instead of Elastic Teams](https://mdalmijn.com/p/why-most-organizations-produce-brittle)
* [Rethinking Agile 1/3: Teams, Trust and Leadership | by Andrew Winnicki | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://andrewwinnicki.medium.com/rethinking-agile-1-3-teams-trust-and-leadership-ec8bee868915)
* [Managers Make Teams Deliver More Value, Not Deliver More Output](https://www.scarletink.com/p/managers-make-teams-deliver-more-value)
* [The Brilliant Jerk vs. Team Performance - Problem #3](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/the-brilliant-jerk-vs-team-performance)
* [Three Ways to Gain Visibility into Indirectly Managed Teams](https://softwareleads.substack.com/p/three-ways-to-gain-visibility-into)
* [Evolving annual reteaming at Redgate | by Chris Smith | Ingeniously Simple | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/ingeniouslysimple/evolving-annual-reteaming-at-redgate-8c7526be267f)
* [How to Use Delivery to Move from Blame to Trust - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/newsletter/2025/04/how-to-use-delivery-to-move-from-blame-to-trust/)
* [Managing Underperformers | Jack Danger](https://jackdanger.com/managing-underperformers/)
* [Creative Peer Recognition: How to Get Better at Team Celebration](https://letsgrowleaders.com/2024/07/08/creative-peer-recognition/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Micromanagement - The Absolute Worst? - Yaniv Preiss](https://yanivpreiss.com/2024/07/06/micromanagement-the-absolute-worst/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Forming, Storming, Dreaming, Performing — Gosei](https://gosei.eu/blog/orming/)
* [teambuilding / lower case opinions](https://lowercaseopinions.com/teambuilding)
* [How organisations cripple engineering teams with good intentions](https://varoa.net/2024/01/09/how-organisations-cripple-engineering-teams-with-good-intentions.html)
## Goals, Strategy & Planning
* [OKRs as a strategy debugger (& sandwich maker)](https://www.allankelly.net/archives/7464/okrs-as-a-strategy-debugger-sandwich-maker/)
* [Good Goals/Bad Goals](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-216-good-goalsbad-goals)
* [TBM 324: Goal-O-Rama - by John Cutler - The Beautiful Mess](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-324-goal-o-rama)
* [How to Reduce Planning, Deliver More, and Surprisingly, Reduce Pressure - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/mpd/2025/03/how-to-reduce-planning-deliver-more-and-surprisingly-reduce-pressure/)
* [TBM 383: Maximizers vs. Focusers - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-383-maximizers-vs-focusers)
* [I Like Dumb Plans - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/i-like-dumb-plans?publication_id=1461103)
* [TBM 234: Maintenance, KTLO, and BAU - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-234-maintenance-ktlo-and-bau)
* [TBM 235: Forms & Shadows - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-235-forms-and-shadows)
* [Strategy as a Series of Beliefs - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/05/12/strategy-as-a-series-of-beliefs/)
* [Your non-linear problem of 90% utilization](https://longform.asmartbear.com/utilization)
* [Roadmaps are tools - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/roadmaps/)
## Performance & Metrics
* [Evaluating Managers: 5 heuristics to measure managerial impact](https://abdulapopoola.com/2023/01/09/evaluating-managers-5-heuristics-to-measure-managerial-impact/)
* [Am I a Good Manager ?. If you find yourself asking this… | by That Crazy Moment | Medium](https://medium.com/@thatcrazymoment/am-i-a-good-manager-269d760c70a1)
* [People Success Performance Indicators | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/people-group/people-success-performance-indicators/)
* [Output vs. Outcomes - Problem #4 - by Mike Fisher](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/output-vs-outcomes-problem-4)
* [Selecting the right product metrics (KPIs)](https://longform.asmartbear.com/product-metrics/)
* [Product Principles | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/product/product-principles/)
* [Simple scorecards beat scales - Garry Shutler](https://gshutler.com/2023/08/simple-scorecards-beat-scales/)
## Communication & Collaboration
* [The subtle science of storytelling at work - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/communication/storytelling-at-work)
* [Communication Structures in a Growing Organization – Jessitron](https://jessitron.com/2024/11/24/communication-structures-in-a-growing-organization/)
* [The Precise Language Of Good Management - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/the-precise-language-of-good-management)
* [Nailing the basics: How to collaborate cross-functionally](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/nailing-the-basics-how-to-collaborate)
* [Playing defense: How to control the narrative if your work is being questioned](https://newsletter.weskao.com/p/playing-defense-how-to-control-narrative?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [How to Communicate When Trust Is Low (Without Digging Yourself Into A Deeper Hole) – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/08/17/how-to-communicate-when-trust-is-low-without-digging-yourself-into-a-deeper-hole/)
* [Fixing the fundamental problems of today’s remote meetings | Remeet — Incredibly fast and efficient meetings](https://www.remeet.com/whitepaper/)
## Delegation & Decision Making
* [Delegating Complex Tasks - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/delegating-complex-tasks)
* [Being in the details - by James Stanier](https://theengineeringmanager.substack.com/p/being-in-the-details)
## Organization & Culture
* [GitHub’s Engineering System Success Playbook - GitHub Resources](https://resources.github.com/engineering-system-success-playbook/)
* [Manage process before people](https://world.hey.com/dhh/manage-process-before-people-20736695)
* [Thriving in Chaos](https://medium.com/ni-tech-talk/thriving-in-chaos-f0d0e37ebfa3)
* [The Openverse - Open Source People & Culture Resources](https://www.openverse.fyi/)
* [When You Plateau, So Does Your Company](https://every.to/no-small-plans/a-founder-s-guide-to-expanding-your-comfort-zone)
* [Be a thermostat, not a thermometer](https://larahogan.me/blog/be-a-thermostat-not-a-thermometer/)
* [Thermostats | Another Rodeo](https://another.rodeo/thermostats/)
* [Design Your Organization for the Conflicts You Want to Hear About - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/10/12/design-your-organization-for-the-conflicts-you-want-to-hear-about/)
* [TBM 347: “Why Don’t Our Leaders Care About How We Work?”](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-347-why-dont-our-leaders-care)
* [TBM 336: Product OS Design Tips and Principles](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-336-product-os-design-tips-and)
* [Jade Rubick - Organizational work and the second job](https://www.rubick.com/organizational-work-second-job/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Meetings, No Deadlines, No Full-Time Employees](https://sahillavingia.com/work)
## Difficult Situations
* [The Surprising Benefits of Conflict in the Workplace](https://davidburkus.com/2023/06/the-surprising-benefits-of-conflict-in-the-workplace/)
* [How do you handle layoffs on a large scale?](https://medium.com/@eyalmrejen/how-do-you-handle-layoffs-on-a-large-scale-9f513f496659)
* [Managers Believe Downsizing Is Effective. Research… | Corporate Rebels](https://www.corporate-rebels.com/blog/managers-believe-downsizing-is-effective-research-says-nope)
* [Human flaws in management: Unintentionally leading employees from engagement to exhaustion | by Austin Mackesy-Buckley | Management Matters | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/human-flaws-in-management-unintentionally-leading-employees-from-engagement-to-exhaustion-f4d8138c80bb)
* [Are We Done Talking About Burnout Yet? Sadly, No](https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbesbusinesscouncil/2024/07/12/are-we-done-talking-about-burnout-yet-sadly-no/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Barriers to Change: Limiting Beliefs — NOBL](https://nobl.io/changemaker/change-barriers-limiting-beliefs/)
* [How to prepare for difficult conversations](https://www.stefanobaccianella.com/p/how-to-prepare-for-difficult-conversations)
* [The Silent Killer of Your Operating Practice: Fear](https://review.firstround.com/the-silent-killer-of-your-operating-practice-fear/)
* [Product Managing to Prevent Burnout | Honeycomb](https://www.honeycomb.io/blog/product-managing-prevent-burnout)
## Reviews & Meetings
* [A Guide to Running Outstanding Business Reviews](https://evidence.dev/blog/business-reviews/)
* [Get the Weekly Business Review App - Working Backwards](https://workingbackwards.com/wbr-app/)
## Specific Roles
* [5 Things Founders, Investors and Recruiters Should Know about the CTO role](https://medium.com/cto-as-a-service/5-things-founders-investors-and-recruiters-should-know-about-the-cto-role-a65d7bb66264)
* [7 proven mental models for engineering managers](https://zaidesanton.substack.com/p/mental-models-for-engineering-managers)
* [Explaining the role of a Delivery Manager – Emily Webber](https://emilywebber.co.uk/what-is-an-agile-delivery-manager/)
* [Hire for Floors, not Ceilings - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2023/aug/16/floors-not-ceilings/)
* [Introverted Engineering Managers Manage From The Background — Why That’s A Good Thing | by Alex Ponomarev | Engineering Manager’s Journal | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/engineering-managers-journal/introverted-engineering-managers-manage-from-the-background-why-thats-a-good-thing-502a9770e8fc)
* [Knowing where your engineer salary comes from | sean goedecke](https://www.seangoedecke.com/where-the-money-comes-from/)
* [The farther you go up the ladder, the less it’s about your technical skills – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2023/08/14/the-farther-you-go-up-the-ladder-the-less-its-about-your-technical-skills/)
* [What a CTO should know about tech | deadSimpleTech](https://deadsimpletech.com/blog/cto_tech_capabilities)
* [Why Should You (Or Anyone) Become An Engineering Manager? – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/12/15/why-should-you-or-anyone-become-an-engineering-manager/)
* [Questionable Advice: “My boss says we don’t need any engineering managers. Is he right?” – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2024/01/05/questionable-advice-my-boss-says-we-dont-need-any-engineering-managers-is-he-right/)
## Books & Resources
* [Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss 📚 log(book)](https://books.rixx.de/chris-voss/never-split-the-difference/)
* [Management Mantras - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/management-mantras)
## Misc
* [“Good engineering management” is a fad | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/good-eng-mgmt-is-a-fad/)
* [Why were you late?](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/late/)
* [A manager’s ultimate guide to effective succession planning - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/leadership/guide-to-effective-succession-planning)
* [Scale your impact as a manager—six areas where you need to do the heavy lifting - Management Excellence by Art Petty](https://artpetty.com/2025/01/19/career-scaling-your-impact/)
* [The Rise and Fall of the Blue-Collar Developers](https://2ndworst.dev/posts/rise-and-fall-blue-collar-developers/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Writers who operate. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/writers-who-operate/)
# index.html.md
# Management
Skews towards *engineering* management, but not exclusively.
See also [Hiring](../hiring/index.md).
## Onboarding
* [https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483](https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483)
* [Onboarding EMs - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/onboarding-ems/)
## Feedback
* [How can you make feedback conversations less painful?](https://medium.com/management-matters/how-can-you-make-feedback-conversations-less-painful-7dde58a944e4)
## Influence
* [How to be “high agency” at work - by Torsten Walbaum](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/how-to-be-high-agency-at-work)
* [Questionable Advice: “How can I drive change and influence teams…without power?”](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/05/drive-change-and-influence-teams-without-power/)
* [Influence Without Authority. One of the most common topics that… | by Gustavo de Lima | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/@gusdlim/influence-without-authority-e4c2971ca7b6)
* [How GitHub taught me to Micromanage — Matthew Rocklin](https://matthewrocklin.com/feedback.html)
* [DRMacIver’s Notebook: Taking responsibility for failure](https://notebook.drmaciver.com/posts/2024-02-06-10:51.html)
## Leadership & Development
* [Leaders Tackle Challenges Early](https://medium.com/management-matters/leaders-tackle-challenges-early-7ded27424cf9)
* [How to Take Personal Development Off the Backburner — Tactical Frameworks for Leveling Up](https://review.firstround.com/how-to-take-personal-development-off-the-backburner-tactical-frameworks-for-leveling-up)
* [The dark side of the leadership](https://elenaverna.substack.com/p/the-dark-side-of-the-leadership)
* [What I have been taught about leadership…](https://guynewey.medium.com/what-i-have-been-taught-about-leadership-year-1-170c55b634dc)
* [Open Leadership Training Series](https://mozilla.github.io/open-leadership-training-series/)
* [The Signs of a Good CEO. Five Essential Features | by Roger Martin | Oct, 2024 | Medium](https://rogermartin.medium.com/the-signs-of-a-good-ceo-160a73656cf9)
* [things I learned from my ex-boss Dinesh - @visakanv’s blog](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/dinesh/)
* [A Practical Guide to Executive Presence: Earning Respect | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/leadership/2024/11/19/executive-presence-part-2.html?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Clear Thinking: Your Secret Weapon Against Leadership Stress – Scott Cochrane](https://scottcochrane.com/index.php/2024/11/21/clear-thinking-your-secret-weapon-against-leadership-stress/)
* [Stop Overthinking, Start Leading: The Power of Taking the First Step | by Scott Lyons | Management Matters | Feb, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/stop-overthinking-start-leading-the-power-of-taking-the-first-step-e97b8a6cff20)
* [Why doing less makes you a better leader - Blog - Tech Leaders Launchpad](https://techleaderslaunchpad.com/resources/blog/why-doing-less-makes-you-a-better-leader)
* [Career Development: What It Really Means to be a Manager, Director, or VP - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2015/03/08/career-development-what-it-really-means-to-be-a-manager-director-or-vp/)
* [How to Hire a CEO. I often find boards of startups taking… | by Vinod Khosla | Jul, 2024 | Medium](https://medium.com/@vkhosla/how-to-hire-a-ceo-2912354ceca5)
* [All I Need to Know About Engineering Leadership I Learned From Leave No Trace - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2024/jul/12/lnt-for-engineering-leadership/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Typical First Years of Startup Engineering Leadership](https://marcgg.com/blog/2024/07/17/startup-technical-leadership/)
* [Lessons learned in 35 years of making software – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2024/07/03/lessons-learned-in-35-years-of-making-software/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Wrong Doors. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/no-wrong-doors/)
## Team Management & Dynamics
* [Helicopter Management and Other Mistakes](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/19/helicopter-management/)
* [How To Fix Broken Teams | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/management/2024/01/23/fix-teams.html)
* [Why Most Organizations Produce Brittle Teams Instead of Elastic Teams](https://mdalmijn.com/p/why-most-organizations-produce-brittle)
* [Rethinking Agile 1/3: Teams, Trust and Leadership | by Andrew Winnicki | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://andrewwinnicki.medium.com/rethinking-agile-1-3-teams-trust-and-leadership-ec8bee868915)
* [Managers Make Teams Deliver More Value, Not Deliver More Output](https://www.scarletink.com/p/managers-make-teams-deliver-more-value)
* [The Brilliant Jerk vs. Team Performance - Problem #3](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/the-brilliant-jerk-vs-team-performance)
* [Three Ways to Gain Visibility into Indirectly Managed Teams](https://softwareleads.substack.com/p/three-ways-to-gain-visibility-into)
* [Evolving annual reteaming at Redgate | by Chris Smith | Ingeniously Simple | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/ingeniouslysimple/evolving-annual-reteaming-at-redgate-8c7526be267f)
* [How to Use Delivery to Move from Blame to Trust - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/newsletter/2025/04/how-to-use-delivery-to-move-from-blame-to-trust/)
* [Managing Underperformers | Jack Danger](https://jackdanger.com/managing-underperformers/)
* [Creative Peer Recognition: How to Get Better at Team Celebration](https://letsgrowleaders.com/2024/07/08/creative-peer-recognition/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Micromanagement - The Absolute Worst? - Yaniv Preiss](https://yanivpreiss.com/2024/07/06/micromanagement-the-absolute-worst/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Forming, Storming, Dreaming, Performing — Gosei](https://gosei.eu/blog/orming/)
* [teambuilding / lower case opinions](https://lowercaseopinions.com/teambuilding)
* [How organisations cripple engineering teams with good intentions](https://varoa.net/2024/01/09/how-organisations-cripple-engineering-teams-with-good-intentions.html)
## Goals, Strategy & Planning
* [OKRs as a strategy debugger (& sandwich maker)](https://www.allankelly.net/archives/7464/okrs-as-a-strategy-debugger-sandwich-maker/)
* [Good Goals/Bad Goals](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-216-good-goalsbad-goals)
* [TBM 324: Goal-O-Rama - by John Cutler - The Beautiful Mess](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-324-goal-o-rama)
* [How to Reduce Planning, Deliver More, and Surprisingly, Reduce Pressure - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/mpd/2025/03/how-to-reduce-planning-deliver-more-and-surprisingly-reduce-pressure/)
* [TBM 383: Maximizers vs. Focusers - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-383-maximizers-vs-focusers)
* [I Like Dumb Plans - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/i-like-dumb-plans?publication_id=1461103)
* [TBM 234: Maintenance, KTLO, and BAU - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-234-maintenance-ktlo-and-bau)
* [TBM 235: Forms & Shadows - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-235-forms-and-shadows)
* [Strategy as a Series of Beliefs - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/05/12/strategy-as-a-series-of-beliefs/)
* [Your non-linear problem of 90% utilization](https://longform.asmartbear.com/utilization)
* [Roadmaps are tools - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/roadmaps/)
## Performance & Metrics
* [Evaluating Managers: 5 heuristics to measure managerial impact](https://abdulapopoola.com/2023/01/09/evaluating-managers-5-heuristics-to-measure-managerial-impact/)
* [Am I a Good Manager ?. If you find yourself asking this… | by That Crazy Moment | Medium](https://medium.com/@thatcrazymoment/am-i-a-good-manager-269d760c70a1)
* [People Success Performance Indicators | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/people-group/people-success-performance-indicators/)
* [Output vs. Outcomes - Problem #4 - by Mike Fisher](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/output-vs-outcomes-problem-4)
* [Selecting the right product metrics (KPIs)](https://longform.asmartbear.com/product-metrics/)
* [Product Principles | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/product/product-principles/)
* [Simple scorecards beat scales - Garry Shutler](https://gshutler.com/2023/08/simple-scorecards-beat-scales/)
## Communication & Collaboration
* [The subtle science of storytelling at work - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/communication/storytelling-at-work)
* [Communication Structures in a Growing Organization – Jessitron](https://jessitron.com/2024/11/24/communication-structures-in-a-growing-organization/)
* [The Precise Language Of Good Management - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/the-precise-language-of-good-management)
* [Nailing the basics: How to collaborate cross-functionally](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/nailing-the-basics-how-to-collaborate)
* [Playing defense: How to control the narrative if your work is being questioned](https://newsletter.weskao.com/p/playing-defense-how-to-control-narrative?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [How to Communicate When Trust Is Low (Without Digging Yourself Into A Deeper Hole) – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/08/17/how-to-communicate-when-trust-is-low-without-digging-yourself-into-a-deeper-hole/)
* [Fixing the fundamental problems of today’s remote meetings | Remeet — Incredibly fast and efficient meetings](https://www.remeet.com/whitepaper/)
## Delegation & Decision Making
* [Delegating Complex Tasks - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/delegating-complex-tasks)
* [Being in the details - by James Stanier](https://theengineeringmanager.substack.com/p/being-in-the-details)
## Organization & Culture
* [GitHub’s Engineering System Success Playbook - GitHub Resources](https://resources.github.com/engineering-system-success-playbook/)
* [Manage process before people](https://world.hey.com/dhh/manage-process-before-people-20736695)
* [Thriving in Chaos](https://medium.com/ni-tech-talk/thriving-in-chaos-f0d0e37ebfa3)
* [The Openverse - Open Source People & Culture Resources](https://www.openverse.fyi/)
* [When You Plateau, So Does Your Company](https://every.to/no-small-plans/a-founder-s-guide-to-expanding-your-comfort-zone)
* [Be a thermostat, not a thermometer](https://larahogan.me/blog/be-a-thermostat-not-a-thermometer/)
* [Thermostats | Another Rodeo](https://another.rodeo/thermostats/)
* [Design Your Organization for the Conflicts You Want to Hear About - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/10/12/design-your-organization-for-the-conflicts-you-want-to-hear-about/)
* [TBM 347: “Why Don’t Our Leaders Care About How We Work?”](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-347-why-dont-our-leaders-care)
* [TBM 336: Product OS Design Tips and Principles](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-336-product-os-design-tips-and)
* [Jade Rubick - Organizational work and the second job](https://www.rubick.com/organizational-work-second-job/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Meetings, No Deadlines, No Full-Time Employees](https://sahillavingia.com/work)
## Difficult Situations
* [The Surprising Benefits of Conflict in the Workplace](https://davidburkus.com/2023/06/the-surprising-benefits-of-conflict-in-the-workplace/)
* [How do you handle layoffs on a large scale?](https://medium.com/@eyalmrejen/how-do-you-handle-layoffs-on-a-large-scale-9f513f496659)
* [Managers Believe Downsizing Is Effective. Research… | Corporate Rebels](https://www.corporate-rebels.com/blog/managers-believe-downsizing-is-effective-research-says-nope)
* [Human flaws in management: Unintentionally leading employees from engagement to exhaustion | by Austin Mackesy-Buckley | Management Matters | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/human-flaws-in-management-unintentionally-leading-employees-from-engagement-to-exhaustion-f4d8138c80bb)
* [Are We Done Talking About Burnout Yet? Sadly, No](https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbesbusinesscouncil/2024/07/12/are-we-done-talking-about-burnout-yet-sadly-no/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Barriers to Change: Limiting Beliefs — NOBL](https://nobl.io/changemaker/change-barriers-limiting-beliefs/)
* [How to prepare for difficult conversations](https://www.stefanobaccianella.com/p/how-to-prepare-for-difficult-conversations)
* [The Silent Killer of Your Operating Practice: Fear](https://review.firstround.com/the-silent-killer-of-your-operating-practice-fear/)
* [Product Managing to Prevent Burnout | Honeycomb](https://www.honeycomb.io/blog/product-managing-prevent-burnout)
## Reviews & Meetings
* [A Guide to Running Outstanding Business Reviews](https://evidence.dev/blog/business-reviews/)
* [Get the Weekly Business Review App - Working Backwards](https://workingbackwards.com/wbr-app/)
## Specific Roles
* [5 Things Founders, Investors and Recruiters Should Know about the CTO role](https://medium.com/cto-as-a-service/5-things-founders-investors-and-recruiters-should-know-about-the-cto-role-a65d7bb66264)
* [7 proven mental models for engineering managers](https://zaidesanton.substack.com/p/mental-models-for-engineering-managers)
* [Explaining the role of a Delivery Manager – Emily Webber](https://emilywebber.co.uk/what-is-an-agile-delivery-manager/)
* [Hire for Floors, not Ceilings - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2023/aug/16/floors-not-ceilings/)
* [Introverted Engineering Managers Manage From The Background — Why That’s A Good Thing | by Alex Ponomarev | Engineering Manager’s Journal | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/engineering-managers-journal/introverted-engineering-managers-manage-from-the-background-why-thats-a-good-thing-502a9770e8fc)
* [Knowing where your engineer salary comes from | sean goedecke](https://www.seangoedecke.com/where-the-money-comes-from/)
* [The farther you go up the ladder, the less it’s about your technical skills – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2023/08/14/the-farther-you-go-up-the-ladder-the-less-its-about-your-technical-skills/)
* [What a CTO should know about tech | deadSimpleTech](https://deadsimpletech.com/blog/cto_tech_capabilities)
* [Why Should You (Or Anyone) Become An Engineering Manager? – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/12/15/why-should-you-or-anyone-become-an-engineering-manager/)
* [Questionable Advice: “My boss says we don’t need any engineering managers. Is he right?” – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2024/01/05/questionable-advice-my-boss-says-we-dont-need-any-engineering-managers-is-he-right/)
## Books & Resources
* [Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss 📚 log(book)](https://books.rixx.de/chris-voss/never-split-the-difference/)
* [Management Mantras - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/management-mantras)
## Misc
* [“Good engineering management” is a fad | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/good-eng-mgmt-is-a-fad/)
* [Why were you late?](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/late/)
* [A manager’s ultimate guide to effective succession planning - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/leadership/guide-to-effective-succession-planning)
* [Scale your impact as a manager—six areas where you need to do the heavy lifting - Management Excellence by Art Petty](https://artpetty.com/2025/01/19/career-scaling-your-impact/)
* [The Rise and Fall of the Blue-Collar Developers](https://2ndworst.dev/posts/rise-and-fall-blue-collar-developers/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Writers who operate. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/writers-who-operate/)
# index.html.md
# Factorio
The Factory Must Grow
Currently I’m in the middle of a fun Space Exploration run,
though that’s on a slightly-enforced hiatus because SE doesn’t run on the latest Factorio release,
and while I could roll back, a break is probably no bad thing…
## General
[https://www.factorio.school/](https://www.factorio.school/)
## Space Exploration
[https://spaceexploration.miraheze.org/wiki/Main_Page](https://spaceexploration.miraheze.org/wiki/Main_Page)
* [Space Exploration - Compact Tileable Core Processing v1.0](https://factorioprints.com/view/-NKiitLoRCmNn5RJ5rtK)
* [Space Exploration - All Inserters](https://factorioprints.com/view/-NDGQrho_vXEOu2Jn1I-)
* [Paul’s Complete Space Exploration Compendium](https://factorioprints.com/view/-NFgIBhjyU6kZqvtX-7M)
* [Space Exploration Early BP Book](https://factorioprints.com/view/-LoHWqGBTpKPrH0r_KVV)
## Misc
* [Factorio Learning Environment](https://jackhopkins.github.io/factorio-learning-environment/)
# index.html.md
# Dota
[https://blog.doismellburning.co.uk/och-spelar-lite-dota/](https://blog.doismellburning.co.uk/och-spelar-lite-dota/)
I played original DotA a little bit after hearing about it through [Basshunter](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vi_sitter_i_Ventrilo_och_spelar_DotA),
though I was terrible at it.
I’m far from great at [Dota 2](https://www.dota2.com/home), but I’ve been playing it since the beta and really enjoy it.
* [DoISmellBurning on Dotabuff](https://www.dotabuff.com/players/14812871)
# index.html.md
# Minecraft
* [https://doismellburning.tumblr.com/post/681186942267883520/minecraft-post-scarcity-survival-multiplayer](https://doismellburning.tumblr.com/post/681186942267883520/minecraft-post-scarcity-survival-multiplayer)
* [https://doismellburning.tumblr.com/post/681690287567945729/minecraft-why-composters-on-top-of-hoppers-are](https://doismellburning.tumblr.com/post/681690287567945729/minecraft-why-composters-on-top-of-hoppers-are)
* [https://doismellburning.tumblr.com/post/682991746498560000/minecraft-the-dirt-yurt-our-first-silo](https://doismellburning.tumblr.com/post/682991746498560000/minecraft-the-dirt-yurt-our-first-silo)
* [https://doismellburning.tumblr.com/post/682996716817055744/minecraft-ikea-interior-design-builds](https://doismellburning.tumblr.com/post/682996716817055744/minecraft-ikea-interior-design-builds)
* [https://doismellburning.tumblr.com/post/693934344858992640/minecraft-mr-pointy](https://doismellburning.tumblr.com/post/693934344858992640/minecraft-mr-pointy)
## Mods
I play a vanilla game, *but* I’m a big fan of quality-of-life / tooling mods,
though I find the lack of native mod support frustrating and tedious,
with every version update needing a bunch of manual faff.
I use:
* [Litematica](https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/litematica)
> * Super helpful when building (or scaling) farms!
* [MiniHUD](https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/minihud)
> * I love having a bit more info on the screen - `F3` is a bit too detailed, but MiniHUD gives me what I need
> * The Light Level overlay is also super useful because I play in Survival - helps spot any bits I missed!
* [Inventory Profiles Next](https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/inventory-profiles-next)
> * I feel like I only use a small part of this, but it’s great for sorting and grouping the contents of chests, and making sure my tools are auto-replaced and that I’m warned when they’re near breaking
# index.html.md
# Management
Skews towards *engineering* management, but not exclusively.
See also [Hiring](../hiring/index.md).
## Onboarding
* [https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483](https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483)
* [Onboarding EMs - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/onboarding-ems/)
## Feedback
* [How can you make feedback conversations less painful?](https://medium.com/management-matters/how-can-you-make-feedback-conversations-less-painful-7dde58a944e4)
## Influence
* [How to be “high agency” at work - by Torsten Walbaum](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/how-to-be-high-agency-at-work)
* [Questionable Advice: “How can I drive change and influence teams…without power?”](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/05/drive-change-and-influence-teams-without-power/)
* [Influence Without Authority. One of the most common topics that… | by Gustavo de Lima | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/@gusdlim/influence-without-authority-e4c2971ca7b6)
* [How GitHub taught me to Micromanage — Matthew Rocklin](https://matthewrocklin.com/feedback.html)
* [DRMacIver’s Notebook: Taking responsibility for failure](https://notebook.drmaciver.com/posts/2024-02-06-10:51.html)
## Leadership & Development
* [Leaders Tackle Challenges Early](https://medium.com/management-matters/leaders-tackle-challenges-early-7ded27424cf9)
* [How to Take Personal Development Off the Backburner — Tactical Frameworks for Leveling Up](https://review.firstround.com/how-to-take-personal-development-off-the-backburner-tactical-frameworks-for-leveling-up)
* [The dark side of the leadership](https://elenaverna.substack.com/p/the-dark-side-of-the-leadership)
* [What I have been taught about leadership…](https://guynewey.medium.com/what-i-have-been-taught-about-leadership-year-1-170c55b634dc)
* [Open Leadership Training Series](https://mozilla.github.io/open-leadership-training-series/)
* [The Signs of a Good CEO. Five Essential Features | by Roger Martin | Oct, 2024 | Medium](https://rogermartin.medium.com/the-signs-of-a-good-ceo-160a73656cf9)
* [things I learned from my ex-boss Dinesh - @visakanv’s blog](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/dinesh/)
* [A Practical Guide to Executive Presence: Earning Respect | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/leadership/2024/11/19/executive-presence-part-2.html?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Clear Thinking: Your Secret Weapon Against Leadership Stress – Scott Cochrane](https://scottcochrane.com/index.php/2024/11/21/clear-thinking-your-secret-weapon-against-leadership-stress/)
* [Stop Overthinking, Start Leading: The Power of Taking the First Step | by Scott Lyons | Management Matters | Feb, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/stop-overthinking-start-leading-the-power-of-taking-the-first-step-e97b8a6cff20)
* [Why doing less makes you a better leader - Blog - Tech Leaders Launchpad](https://techleaderslaunchpad.com/resources/blog/why-doing-less-makes-you-a-better-leader)
* [Career Development: What It Really Means to be a Manager, Director, or VP - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2015/03/08/career-development-what-it-really-means-to-be-a-manager-director-or-vp/)
* [How to Hire a CEO. I often find boards of startups taking… | by Vinod Khosla | Jul, 2024 | Medium](https://medium.com/@vkhosla/how-to-hire-a-ceo-2912354ceca5)
* [All I Need to Know About Engineering Leadership I Learned From Leave No Trace - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2024/jul/12/lnt-for-engineering-leadership/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Typical First Years of Startup Engineering Leadership](https://marcgg.com/blog/2024/07/17/startup-technical-leadership/)
* [Lessons learned in 35 years of making software – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2024/07/03/lessons-learned-in-35-years-of-making-software/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Wrong Doors. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/no-wrong-doors/)
## Team Management & Dynamics
* [Helicopter Management and Other Mistakes](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/19/helicopter-management/)
* [How To Fix Broken Teams | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/management/2024/01/23/fix-teams.html)
* [Why Most Organizations Produce Brittle Teams Instead of Elastic Teams](https://mdalmijn.com/p/why-most-organizations-produce-brittle)
* [Rethinking Agile 1/3: Teams, Trust and Leadership | by Andrew Winnicki | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://andrewwinnicki.medium.com/rethinking-agile-1-3-teams-trust-and-leadership-ec8bee868915)
* [Managers Make Teams Deliver More Value, Not Deliver More Output](https://www.scarletink.com/p/managers-make-teams-deliver-more-value)
* [The Brilliant Jerk vs. Team Performance - Problem #3](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/the-brilliant-jerk-vs-team-performance)
* [Three Ways to Gain Visibility into Indirectly Managed Teams](https://softwareleads.substack.com/p/three-ways-to-gain-visibility-into)
* [Evolving annual reteaming at Redgate | by Chris Smith | Ingeniously Simple | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/ingeniouslysimple/evolving-annual-reteaming-at-redgate-8c7526be267f)
* [How to Use Delivery to Move from Blame to Trust - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/newsletter/2025/04/how-to-use-delivery-to-move-from-blame-to-trust/)
* [Managing Underperformers | Jack Danger](https://jackdanger.com/managing-underperformers/)
* [Creative Peer Recognition: How to Get Better at Team Celebration](https://letsgrowleaders.com/2024/07/08/creative-peer-recognition/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Micromanagement - The Absolute Worst? - Yaniv Preiss](https://yanivpreiss.com/2024/07/06/micromanagement-the-absolute-worst/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Forming, Storming, Dreaming, Performing — Gosei](https://gosei.eu/blog/orming/)
* [teambuilding / lower case opinions](https://lowercaseopinions.com/teambuilding)
* [How organisations cripple engineering teams with good intentions](https://varoa.net/2024/01/09/how-organisations-cripple-engineering-teams-with-good-intentions.html)
## Goals, Strategy & Planning
* [OKRs as a strategy debugger (& sandwich maker)](https://www.allankelly.net/archives/7464/okrs-as-a-strategy-debugger-sandwich-maker/)
* [Good Goals/Bad Goals](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-216-good-goalsbad-goals)
* [TBM 324: Goal-O-Rama - by John Cutler - The Beautiful Mess](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-324-goal-o-rama)
* [How to Reduce Planning, Deliver More, and Surprisingly, Reduce Pressure - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/mpd/2025/03/how-to-reduce-planning-deliver-more-and-surprisingly-reduce-pressure/)
* [TBM 383: Maximizers vs. Focusers - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-383-maximizers-vs-focusers)
* [I Like Dumb Plans - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/i-like-dumb-plans?publication_id=1461103)
* [TBM 234: Maintenance, KTLO, and BAU - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-234-maintenance-ktlo-and-bau)
* [TBM 235: Forms & Shadows - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-235-forms-and-shadows)
* [Strategy as a Series of Beliefs - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/05/12/strategy-as-a-series-of-beliefs/)
* [Your non-linear problem of 90% utilization](https://longform.asmartbear.com/utilization)
* [Roadmaps are tools - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/roadmaps/)
## Performance & Metrics
* [Evaluating Managers: 5 heuristics to measure managerial impact](https://abdulapopoola.com/2023/01/09/evaluating-managers-5-heuristics-to-measure-managerial-impact/)
* [Am I a Good Manager ?. If you find yourself asking this… | by That Crazy Moment | Medium](https://medium.com/@thatcrazymoment/am-i-a-good-manager-269d760c70a1)
* [People Success Performance Indicators | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/people-group/people-success-performance-indicators/)
* [Output vs. Outcomes - Problem #4 - by Mike Fisher](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/output-vs-outcomes-problem-4)
* [Selecting the right product metrics (KPIs)](https://longform.asmartbear.com/product-metrics/)
* [Product Principles | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/product/product-principles/)
* [Simple scorecards beat scales - Garry Shutler](https://gshutler.com/2023/08/simple-scorecards-beat-scales/)
## Communication & Collaboration
* [The subtle science of storytelling at work - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/communication/storytelling-at-work)
* [Communication Structures in a Growing Organization – Jessitron](https://jessitron.com/2024/11/24/communication-structures-in-a-growing-organization/)
* [The Precise Language Of Good Management - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/the-precise-language-of-good-management)
* [Nailing the basics: How to collaborate cross-functionally](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/nailing-the-basics-how-to-collaborate)
* [Playing defense: How to control the narrative if your work is being questioned](https://newsletter.weskao.com/p/playing-defense-how-to-control-narrative?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [How to Communicate When Trust Is Low (Without Digging Yourself Into A Deeper Hole) – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/08/17/how-to-communicate-when-trust-is-low-without-digging-yourself-into-a-deeper-hole/)
* [Fixing the fundamental problems of today’s remote meetings | Remeet — Incredibly fast and efficient meetings](https://www.remeet.com/whitepaper/)
## Delegation & Decision Making
* [Delegating Complex Tasks - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/delegating-complex-tasks)
* [Being in the details - by James Stanier](https://theengineeringmanager.substack.com/p/being-in-the-details)
## Organization & Culture
* [GitHub’s Engineering System Success Playbook - GitHub Resources](https://resources.github.com/engineering-system-success-playbook/)
* [Manage process before people](https://world.hey.com/dhh/manage-process-before-people-20736695)
* [Thriving in Chaos](https://medium.com/ni-tech-talk/thriving-in-chaos-f0d0e37ebfa3)
* [The Openverse - Open Source People & Culture Resources](https://www.openverse.fyi/)
* [When You Plateau, So Does Your Company](https://every.to/no-small-plans/a-founder-s-guide-to-expanding-your-comfort-zone)
* [Be a thermostat, not a thermometer](https://larahogan.me/blog/be-a-thermostat-not-a-thermometer/)
* [Thermostats | Another Rodeo](https://another.rodeo/thermostats/)
* [Design Your Organization for the Conflicts You Want to Hear About - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/10/12/design-your-organization-for-the-conflicts-you-want-to-hear-about/)
* [TBM 347: “Why Don’t Our Leaders Care About How We Work?”](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-347-why-dont-our-leaders-care)
* [TBM 336: Product OS Design Tips and Principles](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-336-product-os-design-tips-and)
* [Jade Rubick - Organizational work and the second job](https://www.rubick.com/organizational-work-second-job/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Meetings, No Deadlines, No Full-Time Employees](https://sahillavingia.com/work)
## Difficult Situations
* [The Surprising Benefits of Conflict in the Workplace](https://davidburkus.com/2023/06/the-surprising-benefits-of-conflict-in-the-workplace/)
* [How do you handle layoffs on a large scale?](https://medium.com/@eyalmrejen/how-do-you-handle-layoffs-on-a-large-scale-9f513f496659)
* [Managers Believe Downsizing Is Effective. Research… | Corporate Rebels](https://www.corporate-rebels.com/blog/managers-believe-downsizing-is-effective-research-says-nope)
* [Human flaws in management: Unintentionally leading employees from engagement to exhaustion | by Austin Mackesy-Buckley | Management Matters | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/human-flaws-in-management-unintentionally-leading-employees-from-engagement-to-exhaustion-f4d8138c80bb)
* [Are We Done Talking About Burnout Yet? Sadly, No](https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbesbusinesscouncil/2024/07/12/are-we-done-talking-about-burnout-yet-sadly-no/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Barriers to Change: Limiting Beliefs — NOBL](https://nobl.io/changemaker/change-barriers-limiting-beliefs/)
* [How to prepare for difficult conversations](https://www.stefanobaccianella.com/p/how-to-prepare-for-difficult-conversations)
* [The Silent Killer of Your Operating Practice: Fear](https://review.firstround.com/the-silent-killer-of-your-operating-practice-fear/)
* [Product Managing to Prevent Burnout | Honeycomb](https://www.honeycomb.io/blog/product-managing-prevent-burnout)
## Reviews & Meetings
* [A Guide to Running Outstanding Business Reviews](https://evidence.dev/blog/business-reviews/)
* [Get the Weekly Business Review App - Working Backwards](https://workingbackwards.com/wbr-app/)
## Specific Roles
* [5 Things Founders, Investors and Recruiters Should Know about the CTO role](https://medium.com/cto-as-a-service/5-things-founders-investors-and-recruiters-should-know-about-the-cto-role-a65d7bb66264)
* [7 proven mental models for engineering managers](https://zaidesanton.substack.com/p/mental-models-for-engineering-managers)
* [Explaining the role of a Delivery Manager – Emily Webber](https://emilywebber.co.uk/what-is-an-agile-delivery-manager/)
* [Hire for Floors, not Ceilings - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2023/aug/16/floors-not-ceilings/)
* [Introverted Engineering Managers Manage From The Background — Why That’s A Good Thing | by Alex Ponomarev | Engineering Manager’s Journal | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/engineering-managers-journal/introverted-engineering-managers-manage-from-the-background-why-thats-a-good-thing-502a9770e8fc)
* [Knowing where your engineer salary comes from | sean goedecke](https://www.seangoedecke.com/where-the-money-comes-from/)
* [The farther you go up the ladder, the less it’s about your technical skills – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2023/08/14/the-farther-you-go-up-the-ladder-the-less-its-about-your-technical-skills/)
* [What a CTO should know about tech | deadSimpleTech](https://deadsimpletech.com/blog/cto_tech_capabilities)
* [Why Should You (Or Anyone) Become An Engineering Manager? – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/12/15/why-should-you-or-anyone-become-an-engineering-manager/)
* [Questionable Advice: “My boss says we don’t need any engineering managers. Is he right?” – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2024/01/05/questionable-advice-my-boss-says-we-dont-need-any-engineering-managers-is-he-right/)
## Books & Resources
* [Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss 📚 log(book)](https://books.rixx.de/chris-voss/never-split-the-difference/)
* [Management Mantras - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/management-mantras)
## Misc
* [“Good engineering management” is a fad | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/good-eng-mgmt-is-a-fad/)
* [Why were you late?](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/late/)
* [A manager’s ultimate guide to effective succession planning - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/leadership/guide-to-effective-succession-planning)
* [Scale your impact as a manager—six areas where you need to do the heavy lifting - Management Excellence by Art Petty](https://artpetty.com/2025/01/19/career-scaling-your-impact/)
* [The Rise and Fall of the Blue-Collar Developers](https://2ndworst.dev/posts/rise-and-fall-blue-collar-developers/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Writers who operate. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/writers-who-operate/)
# index.html.md
# Skyrim
## House Comparison
I love a good home base.
[https://en.uesp.net/wiki/Skyrim:Houses](https://en.uesp.net/wiki/Skyrim:Houses) is a great and detailed overview, but I have my own assessment criteria:
* Travellable? Can you fast travel to it directly (e.g. Tundra Homestead) or is it “travel and walk”
* All in one? Are all the amenities in one location or do you have to move between them, incurring loading screens and times etc.
* Ease of acquisition? Do you just hand over some gold, or is there a quest to complete, or lots of gathering and building?
* Displays? Can you show off all the fancy gear you’ve looted or is it just going to sit in a Safe?
(TODO Write up paper notes)
# index.html.md
# Management
Skews towards *engineering* management, but not exclusively.
See also [Hiring](../hiring/index.md).
## Onboarding
* [https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483](https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483)
* [Onboarding EMs - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/onboarding-ems/)
## Feedback
* [How can you make feedback conversations less painful?](https://medium.com/management-matters/how-can-you-make-feedback-conversations-less-painful-7dde58a944e4)
## Influence
* [How to be “high agency” at work - by Torsten Walbaum](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/how-to-be-high-agency-at-work)
* [Questionable Advice: “How can I drive change and influence teams…without power?”](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/05/drive-change-and-influence-teams-without-power/)
* [Influence Without Authority. One of the most common topics that… | by Gustavo de Lima | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/@gusdlim/influence-without-authority-e4c2971ca7b6)
* [How GitHub taught me to Micromanage — Matthew Rocklin](https://matthewrocklin.com/feedback.html)
* [DRMacIver’s Notebook: Taking responsibility for failure](https://notebook.drmaciver.com/posts/2024-02-06-10:51.html)
## Leadership & Development
* [Leaders Tackle Challenges Early](https://medium.com/management-matters/leaders-tackle-challenges-early-7ded27424cf9)
* [How to Take Personal Development Off the Backburner — Tactical Frameworks for Leveling Up](https://review.firstround.com/how-to-take-personal-development-off-the-backburner-tactical-frameworks-for-leveling-up)
* [The dark side of the leadership](https://elenaverna.substack.com/p/the-dark-side-of-the-leadership)
* [What I have been taught about leadership…](https://guynewey.medium.com/what-i-have-been-taught-about-leadership-year-1-170c55b634dc)
* [Open Leadership Training Series](https://mozilla.github.io/open-leadership-training-series/)
* [The Signs of a Good CEO. Five Essential Features | by Roger Martin | Oct, 2024 | Medium](https://rogermartin.medium.com/the-signs-of-a-good-ceo-160a73656cf9)
* [things I learned from my ex-boss Dinesh - @visakanv’s blog](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/dinesh/)
* [A Practical Guide to Executive Presence: Earning Respect | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/leadership/2024/11/19/executive-presence-part-2.html?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Clear Thinking: Your Secret Weapon Against Leadership Stress – Scott Cochrane](https://scottcochrane.com/index.php/2024/11/21/clear-thinking-your-secret-weapon-against-leadership-stress/)
* [Stop Overthinking, Start Leading: The Power of Taking the First Step | by Scott Lyons | Management Matters | Feb, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/stop-overthinking-start-leading-the-power-of-taking-the-first-step-e97b8a6cff20)
* [Why doing less makes you a better leader - Blog - Tech Leaders Launchpad](https://techleaderslaunchpad.com/resources/blog/why-doing-less-makes-you-a-better-leader)
* [Career Development: What It Really Means to be a Manager, Director, or VP - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2015/03/08/career-development-what-it-really-means-to-be-a-manager-director-or-vp/)
* [How to Hire a CEO. I often find boards of startups taking… | by Vinod Khosla | Jul, 2024 | Medium](https://medium.com/@vkhosla/how-to-hire-a-ceo-2912354ceca5)
* [All I Need to Know About Engineering Leadership I Learned From Leave No Trace - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2024/jul/12/lnt-for-engineering-leadership/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Typical First Years of Startup Engineering Leadership](https://marcgg.com/blog/2024/07/17/startup-technical-leadership/)
* [Lessons learned in 35 years of making software – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2024/07/03/lessons-learned-in-35-years-of-making-software/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Wrong Doors. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/no-wrong-doors/)
## Team Management & Dynamics
* [Helicopter Management and Other Mistakes](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/19/helicopter-management/)
* [How To Fix Broken Teams | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/management/2024/01/23/fix-teams.html)
* [Why Most Organizations Produce Brittle Teams Instead of Elastic Teams](https://mdalmijn.com/p/why-most-organizations-produce-brittle)
* [Rethinking Agile 1/3: Teams, Trust and Leadership | by Andrew Winnicki | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://andrewwinnicki.medium.com/rethinking-agile-1-3-teams-trust-and-leadership-ec8bee868915)
* [Managers Make Teams Deliver More Value, Not Deliver More Output](https://www.scarletink.com/p/managers-make-teams-deliver-more-value)
* [The Brilliant Jerk vs. Team Performance - Problem #3](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/the-brilliant-jerk-vs-team-performance)
* [Three Ways to Gain Visibility into Indirectly Managed Teams](https://softwareleads.substack.com/p/three-ways-to-gain-visibility-into)
* [Evolving annual reteaming at Redgate | by Chris Smith | Ingeniously Simple | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/ingeniouslysimple/evolving-annual-reteaming-at-redgate-8c7526be267f)
* [How to Use Delivery to Move from Blame to Trust - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/newsletter/2025/04/how-to-use-delivery-to-move-from-blame-to-trust/)
* [Managing Underperformers | Jack Danger](https://jackdanger.com/managing-underperformers/)
* [Creative Peer Recognition: How to Get Better at Team Celebration](https://letsgrowleaders.com/2024/07/08/creative-peer-recognition/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Micromanagement - The Absolute Worst? - Yaniv Preiss](https://yanivpreiss.com/2024/07/06/micromanagement-the-absolute-worst/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Forming, Storming, Dreaming, Performing — Gosei](https://gosei.eu/blog/orming/)
* [teambuilding / lower case opinions](https://lowercaseopinions.com/teambuilding)
* [How organisations cripple engineering teams with good intentions](https://varoa.net/2024/01/09/how-organisations-cripple-engineering-teams-with-good-intentions.html)
## Goals, Strategy & Planning
* [OKRs as a strategy debugger (& sandwich maker)](https://www.allankelly.net/archives/7464/okrs-as-a-strategy-debugger-sandwich-maker/)
* [Good Goals/Bad Goals](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-216-good-goalsbad-goals)
* [TBM 324: Goal-O-Rama - by John Cutler - The Beautiful Mess](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-324-goal-o-rama)
* [How to Reduce Planning, Deliver More, and Surprisingly, Reduce Pressure - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/mpd/2025/03/how-to-reduce-planning-deliver-more-and-surprisingly-reduce-pressure/)
* [TBM 383: Maximizers vs. Focusers - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-383-maximizers-vs-focusers)
* [I Like Dumb Plans - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/i-like-dumb-plans?publication_id=1461103)
* [TBM 234: Maintenance, KTLO, and BAU - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-234-maintenance-ktlo-and-bau)
* [TBM 235: Forms & Shadows - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-235-forms-and-shadows)
* [Strategy as a Series of Beliefs - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/05/12/strategy-as-a-series-of-beliefs/)
* [Your non-linear problem of 90% utilization](https://longform.asmartbear.com/utilization)
* [Roadmaps are tools - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/roadmaps/)
## Performance & Metrics
* [Evaluating Managers: 5 heuristics to measure managerial impact](https://abdulapopoola.com/2023/01/09/evaluating-managers-5-heuristics-to-measure-managerial-impact/)
* [Am I a Good Manager ?. If you find yourself asking this… | by That Crazy Moment | Medium](https://medium.com/@thatcrazymoment/am-i-a-good-manager-269d760c70a1)
* [People Success Performance Indicators | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/people-group/people-success-performance-indicators/)
* [Output vs. Outcomes - Problem #4 - by Mike Fisher](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/output-vs-outcomes-problem-4)
* [Selecting the right product metrics (KPIs)](https://longform.asmartbear.com/product-metrics/)
* [Product Principles | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/product/product-principles/)
* [Simple scorecards beat scales - Garry Shutler](https://gshutler.com/2023/08/simple-scorecards-beat-scales/)
## Communication & Collaboration
* [The subtle science of storytelling at work - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/communication/storytelling-at-work)
* [Communication Structures in a Growing Organization – Jessitron](https://jessitron.com/2024/11/24/communication-structures-in-a-growing-organization/)
* [The Precise Language Of Good Management - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/the-precise-language-of-good-management)
* [Nailing the basics: How to collaborate cross-functionally](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/nailing-the-basics-how-to-collaborate)
* [Playing defense: How to control the narrative if your work is being questioned](https://newsletter.weskao.com/p/playing-defense-how-to-control-narrative?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [How to Communicate When Trust Is Low (Without Digging Yourself Into A Deeper Hole) – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/08/17/how-to-communicate-when-trust-is-low-without-digging-yourself-into-a-deeper-hole/)
* [Fixing the fundamental problems of today’s remote meetings | Remeet — Incredibly fast and efficient meetings](https://www.remeet.com/whitepaper/)
## Delegation & Decision Making
* [Delegating Complex Tasks - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/delegating-complex-tasks)
* [Being in the details - by James Stanier](https://theengineeringmanager.substack.com/p/being-in-the-details)
## Organization & Culture
* [GitHub’s Engineering System Success Playbook - GitHub Resources](https://resources.github.com/engineering-system-success-playbook/)
* [Manage process before people](https://world.hey.com/dhh/manage-process-before-people-20736695)
* [Thriving in Chaos](https://medium.com/ni-tech-talk/thriving-in-chaos-f0d0e37ebfa3)
* [The Openverse - Open Source People & Culture Resources](https://www.openverse.fyi/)
* [When You Plateau, So Does Your Company](https://every.to/no-small-plans/a-founder-s-guide-to-expanding-your-comfort-zone)
* [Be a thermostat, not a thermometer](https://larahogan.me/blog/be-a-thermostat-not-a-thermometer/)
* [Thermostats | Another Rodeo](https://another.rodeo/thermostats/)
* [Design Your Organization for the Conflicts You Want to Hear About - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/10/12/design-your-organization-for-the-conflicts-you-want-to-hear-about/)
* [TBM 347: “Why Don’t Our Leaders Care About How We Work?”](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-347-why-dont-our-leaders-care)
* [TBM 336: Product OS Design Tips and Principles](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-336-product-os-design-tips-and)
* [Jade Rubick - Organizational work and the second job](https://www.rubick.com/organizational-work-second-job/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Meetings, No Deadlines, No Full-Time Employees](https://sahillavingia.com/work)
## Difficult Situations
* [The Surprising Benefits of Conflict in the Workplace](https://davidburkus.com/2023/06/the-surprising-benefits-of-conflict-in-the-workplace/)
* [How do you handle layoffs on a large scale?](https://medium.com/@eyalmrejen/how-do-you-handle-layoffs-on-a-large-scale-9f513f496659)
* [Managers Believe Downsizing Is Effective. Research… | Corporate Rebels](https://www.corporate-rebels.com/blog/managers-believe-downsizing-is-effective-research-says-nope)
* [Human flaws in management: Unintentionally leading employees from engagement to exhaustion | by Austin Mackesy-Buckley | Management Matters | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/human-flaws-in-management-unintentionally-leading-employees-from-engagement-to-exhaustion-f4d8138c80bb)
* [Are We Done Talking About Burnout Yet? Sadly, No](https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbesbusinesscouncil/2024/07/12/are-we-done-talking-about-burnout-yet-sadly-no/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Barriers to Change: Limiting Beliefs — NOBL](https://nobl.io/changemaker/change-barriers-limiting-beliefs/)
* [How to prepare for difficult conversations](https://www.stefanobaccianella.com/p/how-to-prepare-for-difficult-conversations)
* [The Silent Killer of Your Operating Practice: Fear](https://review.firstround.com/the-silent-killer-of-your-operating-practice-fear/)
* [Product Managing to Prevent Burnout | Honeycomb](https://www.honeycomb.io/blog/product-managing-prevent-burnout)
## Reviews & Meetings
* [A Guide to Running Outstanding Business Reviews](https://evidence.dev/blog/business-reviews/)
* [Get the Weekly Business Review App - Working Backwards](https://workingbackwards.com/wbr-app/)
## Specific Roles
* [5 Things Founders, Investors and Recruiters Should Know about the CTO role](https://medium.com/cto-as-a-service/5-things-founders-investors-and-recruiters-should-know-about-the-cto-role-a65d7bb66264)
* [7 proven mental models for engineering managers](https://zaidesanton.substack.com/p/mental-models-for-engineering-managers)
* [Explaining the role of a Delivery Manager – Emily Webber](https://emilywebber.co.uk/what-is-an-agile-delivery-manager/)
* [Hire for Floors, not Ceilings - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2023/aug/16/floors-not-ceilings/)
* [Introverted Engineering Managers Manage From The Background — Why That’s A Good Thing | by Alex Ponomarev | Engineering Manager’s Journal | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/engineering-managers-journal/introverted-engineering-managers-manage-from-the-background-why-thats-a-good-thing-502a9770e8fc)
* [Knowing where your engineer salary comes from | sean goedecke](https://www.seangoedecke.com/where-the-money-comes-from/)
* [The farther you go up the ladder, the less it’s about your technical skills – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2023/08/14/the-farther-you-go-up-the-ladder-the-less-its-about-your-technical-skills/)
* [What a CTO should know about tech | deadSimpleTech](https://deadsimpletech.com/blog/cto_tech_capabilities)
* [Why Should You (Or Anyone) Become An Engineering Manager? – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/12/15/why-should-you-or-anyone-become-an-engineering-manager/)
* [Questionable Advice: “My boss says we don’t need any engineering managers. Is he right?” – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2024/01/05/questionable-advice-my-boss-says-we-dont-need-any-engineering-managers-is-he-right/)
## Books & Resources
* [Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss 📚 log(book)](https://books.rixx.de/chris-voss/never-split-the-difference/)
* [Management Mantras - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/management-mantras)
## Misc
* [“Good engineering management” is a fad | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/good-eng-mgmt-is-a-fad/)
* [Why were you late?](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/late/)
* [A manager’s ultimate guide to effective succession planning - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/leadership/guide-to-effective-succession-planning)
* [Scale your impact as a manager—six areas where you need to do the heavy lifting - Management Excellence by Art Petty](https://artpetty.com/2025/01/19/career-scaling-your-impact/)
* [The Rise and Fall of the Blue-Collar Developers](https://2ndworst.dev/posts/rise-and-fall-blue-collar-developers/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Writers who operate. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/writers-who-operate/)
# index.html.md
# Management
Skews towards *engineering* management, but not exclusively.
See also [Hiring](../hiring/index.md).
## Onboarding
* [https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483](https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483)
* [Onboarding EMs - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/onboarding-ems/)
## Feedback
* [How can you make feedback conversations less painful?](https://medium.com/management-matters/how-can-you-make-feedback-conversations-less-painful-7dde58a944e4)
## Influence
* [How to be “high agency” at work - by Torsten Walbaum](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/how-to-be-high-agency-at-work)
* [Questionable Advice: “How can I drive change and influence teams…without power?”](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/05/drive-change-and-influence-teams-without-power/)
* [Influence Without Authority. One of the most common topics that… | by Gustavo de Lima | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/@gusdlim/influence-without-authority-e4c2971ca7b6)
* [How GitHub taught me to Micromanage — Matthew Rocklin](https://matthewrocklin.com/feedback.html)
* [DRMacIver’s Notebook: Taking responsibility for failure](https://notebook.drmaciver.com/posts/2024-02-06-10:51.html)
## Leadership & Development
* [Leaders Tackle Challenges Early](https://medium.com/management-matters/leaders-tackle-challenges-early-7ded27424cf9)
* [How to Take Personal Development Off the Backburner — Tactical Frameworks for Leveling Up](https://review.firstround.com/how-to-take-personal-development-off-the-backburner-tactical-frameworks-for-leveling-up)
* [The dark side of the leadership](https://elenaverna.substack.com/p/the-dark-side-of-the-leadership)
* [What I have been taught about leadership…](https://guynewey.medium.com/what-i-have-been-taught-about-leadership-year-1-170c55b634dc)
* [Open Leadership Training Series](https://mozilla.github.io/open-leadership-training-series/)
* [The Signs of a Good CEO. Five Essential Features | by Roger Martin | Oct, 2024 | Medium](https://rogermartin.medium.com/the-signs-of-a-good-ceo-160a73656cf9)
* [things I learned from my ex-boss Dinesh - @visakanv’s blog](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/dinesh/)
* [A Practical Guide to Executive Presence: Earning Respect | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/leadership/2024/11/19/executive-presence-part-2.html?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Clear Thinking: Your Secret Weapon Against Leadership Stress – Scott Cochrane](https://scottcochrane.com/index.php/2024/11/21/clear-thinking-your-secret-weapon-against-leadership-stress/)
* [Stop Overthinking, Start Leading: The Power of Taking the First Step | by Scott Lyons | Management Matters | Feb, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/stop-overthinking-start-leading-the-power-of-taking-the-first-step-e97b8a6cff20)
* [Why doing less makes you a better leader - Blog - Tech Leaders Launchpad](https://techleaderslaunchpad.com/resources/blog/why-doing-less-makes-you-a-better-leader)
* [Career Development: What It Really Means to be a Manager, Director, or VP - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2015/03/08/career-development-what-it-really-means-to-be-a-manager-director-or-vp/)
* [How to Hire a CEO. I often find boards of startups taking… | by Vinod Khosla | Jul, 2024 | Medium](https://medium.com/@vkhosla/how-to-hire-a-ceo-2912354ceca5)
* [All I Need to Know About Engineering Leadership I Learned From Leave No Trace - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2024/jul/12/lnt-for-engineering-leadership/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Typical First Years of Startup Engineering Leadership](https://marcgg.com/blog/2024/07/17/startup-technical-leadership/)
* [Lessons learned in 35 years of making software – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2024/07/03/lessons-learned-in-35-years-of-making-software/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Wrong Doors. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/no-wrong-doors/)
## Team Management & Dynamics
* [Helicopter Management and Other Mistakes](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/19/helicopter-management/)
* [How To Fix Broken Teams | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/management/2024/01/23/fix-teams.html)
* [Why Most Organizations Produce Brittle Teams Instead of Elastic Teams](https://mdalmijn.com/p/why-most-organizations-produce-brittle)
* [Rethinking Agile 1/3: Teams, Trust and Leadership | by Andrew Winnicki | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://andrewwinnicki.medium.com/rethinking-agile-1-3-teams-trust-and-leadership-ec8bee868915)
* [Managers Make Teams Deliver More Value, Not Deliver More Output](https://www.scarletink.com/p/managers-make-teams-deliver-more-value)
* [The Brilliant Jerk vs. Team Performance - Problem #3](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/the-brilliant-jerk-vs-team-performance)
* [Three Ways to Gain Visibility into Indirectly Managed Teams](https://softwareleads.substack.com/p/three-ways-to-gain-visibility-into)
* [Evolving annual reteaming at Redgate | by Chris Smith | Ingeniously Simple | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/ingeniouslysimple/evolving-annual-reteaming-at-redgate-8c7526be267f)
* [How to Use Delivery to Move from Blame to Trust - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/newsletter/2025/04/how-to-use-delivery-to-move-from-blame-to-trust/)
* [Managing Underperformers | Jack Danger](https://jackdanger.com/managing-underperformers/)
* [Creative Peer Recognition: How to Get Better at Team Celebration](https://letsgrowleaders.com/2024/07/08/creative-peer-recognition/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Micromanagement - The Absolute Worst? - Yaniv Preiss](https://yanivpreiss.com/2024/07/06/micromanagement-the-absolute-worst/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Forming, Storming, Dreaming, Performing — Gosei](https://gosei.eu/blog/orming/)
* [teambuilding / lower case opinions](https://lowercaseopinions.com/teambuilding)
* [How organisations cripple engineering teams with good intentions](https://varoa.net/2024/01/09/how-organisations-cripple-engineering-teams-with-good-intentions.html)
## Goals, Strategy & Planning
* [OKRs as a strategy debugger (& sandwich maker)](https://www.allankelly.net/archives/7464/okrs-as-a-strategy-debugger-sandwich-maker/)
* [Good Goals/Bad Goals](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-216-good-goalsbad-goals)
* [TBM 324: Goal-O-Rama - by John Cutler - The Beautiful Mess](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-324-goal-o-rama)
* [How to Reduce Planning, Deliver More, and Surprisingly, Reduce Pressure - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/mpd/2025/03/how-to-reduce-planning-deliver-more-and-surprisingly-reduce-pressure/)
* [TBM 383: Maximizers vs. Focusers - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-383-maximizers-vs-focusers)
* [I Like Dumb Plans - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/i-like-dumb-plans?publication_id=1461103)
* [TBM 234: Maintenance, KTLO, and BAU - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-234-maintenance-ktlo-and-bau)
* [TBM 235: Forms & Shadows - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-235-forms-and-shadows)
* [Strategy as a Series of Beliefs - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/05/12/strategy-as-a-series-of-beliefs/)
* [Your non-linear problem of 90% utilization](https://longform.asmartbear.com/utilization)
* [Roadmaps are tools - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/roadmaps/)
## Performance & Metrics
* [Evaluating Managers: 5 heuristics to measure managerial impact](https://abdulapopoola.com/2023/01/09/evaluating-managers-5-heuristics-to-measure-managerial-impact/)
* [Am I a Good Manager ?. If you find yourself asking this… | by That Crazy Moment | Medium](https://medium.com/@thatcrazymoment/am-i-a-good-manager-269d760c70a1)
* [People Success Performance Indicators | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/people-group/people-success-performance-indicators/)
* [Output vs. Outcomes - Problem #4 - by Mike Fisher](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/output-vs-outcomes-problem-4)
* [Selecting the right product metrics (KPIs)](https://longform.asmartbear.com/product-metrics/)
* [Product Principles | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/product/product-principles/)
* [Simple scorecards beat scales - Garry Shutler](https://gshutler.com/2023/08/simple-scorecards-beat-scales/)
## Communication & Collaboration
* [The subtle science of storytelling at work - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/communication/storytelling-at-work)
* [Communication Structures in a Growing Organization – Jessitron](https://jessitron.com/2024/11/24/communication-structures-in-a-growing-organization/)
* [The Precise Language Of Good Management - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/the-precise-language-of-good-management)
* [Nailing the basics: How to collaborate cross-functionally](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/nailing-the-basics-how-to-collaborate)
* [Playing defense: How to control the narrative if your work is being questioned](https://newsletter.weskao.com/p/playing-defense-how-to-control-narrative?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [How to Communicate When Trust Is Low (Without Digging Yourself Into A Deeper Hole) – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/08/17/how-to-communicate-when-trust-is-low-without-digging-yourself-into-a-deeper-hole/)
* [Fixing the fundamental problems of today’s remote meetings | Remeet — Incredibly fast and efficient meetings](https://www.remeet.com/whitepaper/)
## Delegation & Decision Making
* [Delegating Complex Tasks - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/delegating-complex-tasks)
* [Being in the details - by James Stanier](https://theengineeringmanager.substack.com/p/being-in-the-details)
## Organization & Culture
* [GitHub’s Engineering System Success Playbook - GitHub Resources](https://resources.github.com/engineering-system-success-playbook/)
* [Manage process before people](https://world.hey.com/dhh/manage-process-before-people-20736695)
* [Thriving in Chaos](https://medium.com/ni-tech-talk/thriving-in-chaos-f0d0e37ebfa3)
* [The Openverse - Open Source People & Culture Resources](https://www.openverse.fyi/)
* [When You Plateau, So Does Your Company](https://every.to/no-small-plans/a-founder-s-guide-to-expanding-your-comfort-zone)
* [Be a thermostat, not a thermometer](https://larahogan.me/blog/be-a-thermostat-not-a-thermometer/)
* [Thermostats | Another Rodeo](https://another.rodeo/thermostats/)
* [Design Your Organization for the Conflicts You Want to Hear About - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/10/12/design-your-organization-for-the-conflicts-you-want-to-hear-about/)
* [TBM 347: “Why Don’t Our Leaders Care About How We Work?”](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-347-why-dont-our-leaders-care)
* [TBM 336: Product OS Design Tips and Principles](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-336-product-os-design-tips-and)
* [Jade Rubick - Organizational work and the second job](https://www.rubick.com/organizational-work-second-job/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Meetings, No Deadlines, No Full-Time Employees](https://sahillavingia.com/work)
## Difficult Situations
* [The Surprising Benefits of Conflict in the Workplace](https://davidburkus.com/2023/06/the-surprising-benefits-of-conflict-in-the-workplace/)
* [How do you handle layoffs on a large scale?](https://medium.com/@eyalmrejen/how-do-you-handle-layoffs-on-a-large-scale-9f513f496659)
* [Managers Believe Downsizing Is Effective. Research… | Corporate Rebels](https://www.corporate-rebels.com/blog/managers-believe-downsizing-is-effective-research-says-nope)
* [Human flaws in management: Unintentionally leading employees from engagement to exhaustion | by Austin Mackesy-Buckley | Management Matters | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/human-flaws-in-management-unintentionally-leading-employees-from-engagement-to-exhaustion-f4d8138c80bb)
* [Are We Done Talking About Burnout Yet? Sadly, No](https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbesbusinesscouncil/2024/07/12/are-we-done-talking-about-burnout-yet-sadly-no/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Barriers to Change: Limiting Beliefs — NOBL](https://nobl.io/changemaker/change-barriers-limiting-beliefs/)
* [How to prepare for difficult conversations](https://www.stefanobaccianella.com/p/how-to-prepare-for-difficult-conversations)
* [The Silent Killer of Your Operating Practice: Fear](https://review.firstround.com/the-silent-killer-of-your-operating-practice-fear/)
* [Product Managing to Prevent Burnout | Honeycomb](https://www.honeycomb.io/blog/product-managing-prevent-burnout)
## Reviews & Meetings
* [A Guide to Running Outstanding Business Reviews](https://evidence.dev/blog/business-reviews/)
* [Get the Weekly Business Review App - Working Backwards](https://workingbackwards.com/wbr-app/)
## Specific Roles
* [5 Things Founders, Investors and Recruiters Should Know about the CTO role](https://medium.com/cto-as-a-service/5-things-founders-investors-and-recruiters-should-know-about-the-cto-role-a65d7bb66264)
* [7 proven mental models for engineering managers](https://zaidesanton.substack.com/p/mental-models-for-engineering-managers)
* [Explaining the role of a Delivery Manager – Emily Webber](https://emilywebber.co.uk/what-is-an-agile-delivery-manager/)
* [Hire for Floors, not Ceilings - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2023/aug/16/floors-not-ceilings/)
* [Introverted Engineering Managers Manage From The Background — Why That’s A Good Thing | by Alex Ponomarev | Engineering Manager’s Journal | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/engineering-managers-journal/introverted-engineering-managers-manage-from-the-background-why-thats-a-good-thing-502a9770e8fc)
* [Knowing where your engineer salary comes from | sean goedecke](https://www.seangoedecke.com/where-the-money-comes-from/)
* [The farther you go up the ladder, the less it’s about your technical skills – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2023/08/14/the-farther-you-go-up-the-ladder-the-less-its-about-your-technical-skills/)
* [What a CTO should know about tech | deadSimpleTech](https://deadsimpletech.com/blog/cto_tech_capabilities)
* [Why Should You (Or Anyone) Become An Engineering Manager? – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/12/15/why-should-you-or-anyone-become-an-engineering-manager/)
* [Questionable Advice: “My boss says we don’t need any engineering managers. Is he right?” – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2024/01/05/questionable-advice-my-boss-says-we-dont-need-any-engineering-managers-is-he-right/)
## Books & Resources
* [Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss 📚 log(book)](https://books.rixx.de/chris-voss/never-split-the-difference/)
* [Management Mantras - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/management-mantras)
## Misc
* [“Good engineering management” is a fad | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/good-eng-mgmt-is-a-fad/)
* [Why were you late?](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/late/)
* [A manager’s ultimate guide to effective succession planning - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/leadership/guide-to-effective-succession-planning)
* [Scale your impact as a manager—six areas where you need to do the heavy lifting - Management Excellence by Art Petty](https://artpetty.com/2025/01/19/career-scaling-your-impact/)
* [The Rise and Fall of the Blue-Collar Developers](https://2ndworst.dev/posts/rise-and-fall-blue-collar-developers/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Writers who operate. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/writers-who-operate/)
# index.html.md
# Technical Debt
I have a lot of feelings about this term.
In short, I think it’s an incredibly loaded term with a huge range of interpretations and understandings,
which can make it dangerous to use.
But it’s a valuable concept, and comes up a lot.
## Metrics and categories and approaches
* [A Taxonomy of Tech Debt](https://engineering.riotgames.com/news/taxonomy-tech-debt)
> * Identifies three metrics - “impact”, “fix cost”, and “contagion” - for better evaluation
> * Identifies four non-exhaustive categories - “local debt” (a well-contained hack), “MacGyver debt” (two distinct systems bodged together), “foundational debt” (historical decisions you’re tied to that don’t really make sense today), and “data debt” (I struggle to summarise this well, but essentially the kind of issues that come from historical decisions around data and algorithms and meaning)
* [Anything But Tech Debt | Honeycomb](https://www.honeycomb.io/blog/anything-but-tech-debt)
> * Calls out that “tech debt” could mean any one of a large number of things, and amount to more than two thirds of the types of work an engineer might touch
> * Points out that if you’re struggling to negotiate time for “technical debt”, improving how you communicate and talk about it could help
* [As a metaphor and practice, technical debt is holding us back](https://computersandpeople.com/technical-debt-is-holding-us-back/)
* [How Google Measures and Manages Tech Debt](https://newsletter.techworld-with-milan.com/p/how-google-measures-and-manages-tech)
> * Categories (“Migration needed or in progress”, “Poor or missing documentation”, “Inadequate testing”, “Bad code quality”, “Dead code”, “Code degradation”, “Knowledge gaps”, “Problematic dependencies”, “Failed migrations”, “Outdated release process”)
> * Found that “No metric predicted engineer-reported technical debt”
> * Tech Debt Maturity Model (“Reactive”, “Proactive”, “Strategic”, “Structural”)
> * Balance, practical takeaways, and culture
* [If you want to address tech debt, quantify it first - Stack Overflow](https://stackoverflow.blog/2023/08/24/if-you-want-to-address-tech-debt-quantify-it-first/)
* [Your software is rotting | Terminal](https://terminal.ahumanfuture.co/posts/2025-04-19/your-software-is-rotting/)
* [Ingineering.IT — DevOps, Technical Debt, and Adaptive Organizations](https://web.archive.org/web/20160418235955/https://blog.ingineering.it/post/21311393348/tech-debt)
* [On technical debt](https://medium.com/@MostlyHarmlessD/on-technical-debt-7bac65edf349)
> * Covers a number of impacts (“Time is wasted”, “Estimates are less reliable”, “It gets worse”, “It’s boring and frustrating”)
> * Provides assorted approaches for addressing it (“Just accept it and move on”, “Be strict”, “Borrow responsibly”)
* [Stop saying “technical debt”](https://stackoverflow.blog/2023/12/27/stop-saying-technical-debt/)
* [Tech debt - the plague of digital businesses that never seems to go away - part 1 | CTO Craft](https://ctocraft.com/blog/tech-debt-the-plague-of-digital-businesses-that-never-seems-to-go-away-part-1/)
* [Tech debt is not a burden, it’s a strategic lever for success — Reforge](https://www.reforge.com/blog/managing-tech-debt)
> * In a similar vein to “not all debt is bad debt”, dives into nuance
> * Identifies six types of “technical debt” (“Maintenance”, “Developer Efficiency”, “Stability”, “Security”, “Technical Product”, “Decision”)
> * Provides suggestions for sizing and prioritising and leveraging
* [Technical debt: Can investing in it unlock 2x team impact?](https://unferled.substack.com/p/can-investing-technical-debt-2x-team-impact)
> * [Betteridge might say no](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Betteridge's_law_of_headlines) but this piece actually says “maybe”
> * Calls out the problems of the term, and the value of prioritisation and evaluation
* [Technical Debt: How much is a good thing? | CTO Craft](https://ctocraft.com/blog/technical-debt-how-much-is-a-good-thing/)
* [Towards an understanding of technical debt](https://kellanem.com/notes/towards-an-understanding-of-technical-debt)
> * Identifies five (non-exhaustive) categories (“Maintenance work”, “Features of the codebase that resist change”, “Operability choices that resist change”, “Code choices that suck the will to live”, “Dependencies that resist upgrading”)
* [What is Technical Debt?](https://lauratacho.com/blog/what-is-technical-debt)
## Financial Analogies
Lots of folks like to lean in to the “debt” part to varying degrees:
* [Bad code isn’t Technical Debt, it’s an unhedged Call Option](https://higherorderlogic.com/programming/2023/10/06/bad-code-isnt-technical-debt-its-an-unhedged-call-option.html)
* [Similarities Between Tech Debt and ‘Money’ Debt](https://marcgg.com/blog/2025/02/20/tech-debt/)
> * (“Allows you to move faster”, “You have to pay it back”, “It costs more to reimburse”, “Left unchecked, it can be disastrous”, “There are cases where you shouldn’t do it”, “Limits your ability to seize new opportunities”)
* [Tech debt metaphor maximalism - apenwarr](https://apenwarr.ca/log/20230605#)
## Other Debts
Adjacent to “technical debt”, there’s also:
* [Conceptual Debt is Worse than Technical Debt](https://medium.com/@nicolaerusan/conceptual-debt-is-worse-than-technical-debt-5b65a910fd46)
> * Others would call this simply another type of technical debt, but there’s value in discussing it with specificity
* [How to Address Tech Debt vs. Product Debt vs. Business Debt | by Julius Uy | Big O(n) Development | Medium](https://medium.com/big-on-development/how-to-address-tech-debt-vs-product-debt-vs-business-debt-42d43d5f768c)
* [Intellectual debt](http://blog.ucant.org/?p=519)
* [Management Debt | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/management/2023/01/12/management-debt.html)
* [Start-ups and Emotional Debt](http://www.evanmiller.org/start-ups-and-emotional-debt.html)
## See Also
* [Justin Blank’s Characterizing Tech Debt](https://justinblank.com/notebooks/characterizingtechdebt.html)
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# Management
Skews towards *engineering* management, but not exclusively.
See also [Hiring](../hiring/index.md).
## Onboarding
* [https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483](https://betterprogramming.pub/improve-onboarding-in-teams-through-the-magic-of-storytelling-31b7fc479483)
* [Onboarding EMs - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/onboarding-ems/)
## Feedback
* [How can you make feedback conversations less painful?](https://medium.com/management-matters/how-can-you-make-feedback-conversations-less-painful-7dde58a944e4)
## Influence
* [How to be “high agency” at work - by Torsten Walbaum](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/how-to-be-high-agency-at-work)
* [Questionable Advice: “How can I drive change and influence teams…without power?”](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/05/drive-change-and-influence-teams-without-power/)
* [Influence Without Authority. One of the most common topics that… | by Gustavo de Lima | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/@gusdlim/influence-without-authority-e4c2971ca7b6)
* [How GitHub taught me to Micromanage — Matthew Rocklin](https://matthewrocklin.com/feedback.html)
* [DRMacIver’s Notebook: Taking responsibility for failure](https://notebook.drmaciver.com/posts/2024-02-06-10:51.html)
## Leadership & Development
* [Leaders Tackle Challenges Early](https://medium.com/management-matters/leaders-tackle-challenges-early-7ded27424cf9)
* [How to Take Personal Development Off the Backburner — Tactical Frameworks for Leveling Up](https://review.firstround.com/how-to-take-personal-development-off-the-backburner-tactical-frameworks-for-leveling-up)
* [The dark side of the leadership](https://elenaverna.substack.com/p/the-dark-side-of-the-leadership)
* [What I have been taught about leadership…](https://guynewey.medium.com/what-i-have-been-taught-about-leadership-year-1-170c55b634dc)
* [Open Leadership Training Series](https://mozilla.github.io/open-leadership-training-series/)
* [The Signs of a Good CEO. Five Essential Features | by Roger Martin | Oct, 2024 | Medium](https://rogermartin.medium.com/the-signs-of-a-good-ceo-160a73656cf9)
* [things I learned from my ex-boss Dinesh - @visakanv’s blog](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/dinesh/)
* [A Practical Guide to Executive Presence: Earning Respect | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/leadership/2024/11/19/executive-presence-part-2.html?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Clear Thinking: Your Secret Weapon Against Leadership Stress – Scott Cochrane](https://scottcochrane.com/index.php/2024/11/21/clear-thinking-your-secret-weapon-against-leadership-stress/)
* [Stop Overthinking, Start Leading: The Power of Taking the First Step | by Scott Lyons | Management Matters | Feb, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/stop-overthinking-start-leading-the-power-of-taking-the-first-step-e97b8a6cff20)
* [Why doing less makes you a better leader - Blog - Tech Leaders Launchpad](https://techleaderslaunchpad.com/resources/blog/why-doing-less-makes-you-a-better-leader)
* [Career Development: What It Really Means to be a Manager, Director, or VP - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2015/03/08/career-development-what-it-really-means-to-be-a-manager-director-or-vp/)
* [How to Hire a CEO. I often find boards of startups taking… | by Vinod Khosla | Jul, 2024 | Medium](https://medium.com/@vkhosla/how-to-hire-a-ceo-2912354ceca5)
* [All I Need to Know About Engineering Leadership I Learned From Leave No Trace - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2024/jul/12/lnt-for-engineering-leadership/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Typical First Years of Startup Engineering Leadership](https://marcgg.com/blog/2024/07/17/startup-technical-leadership/)
* [Lessons learned in 35 years of making software – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2024/07/03/lessons-learned-in-35-years-of-making-software/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Wrong Doors. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/no-wrong-doors/)
## Team Management & Dynamics
* [Helicopter Management and Other Mistakes](https://charity.wtf/2023/06/19/helicopter-management/)
* [How To Fix Broken Teams | Stay SaaSy](https://staysaasy.com/management/2024/01/23/fix-teams.html)
* [Why Most Organizations Produce Brittle Teams Instead of Elastic Teams](https://mdalmijn.com/p/why-most-organizations-produce-brittle)
* [Rethinking Agile 1/3: Teams, Trust and Leadership | by Andrew Winnicki | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://andrewwinnicki.medium.com/rethinking-agile-1-3-teams-trust-and-leadership-ec8bee868915)
* [Managers Make Teams Deliver More Value, Not Deliver More Output](https://www.scarletink.com/p/managers-make-teams-deliver-more-value)
* [The Brilliant Jerk vs. Team Performance - Problem #3](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/the-brilliant-jerk-vs-team-performance)
* [Three Ways to Gain Visibility into Indirectly Managed Teams](https://softwareleads.substack.com/p/three-ways-to-gain-visibility-into)
* [Evolving annual reteaming at Redgate | by Chris Smith | Ingeniously Simple | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/ingeniouslysimple/evolving-annual-reteaming-at-redgate-8c7526be267f)
* [How to Use Delivery to Move from Blame to Trust - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/newsletter/2025/04/how-to-use-delivery-to-move-from-blame-to-trust/)
* [Managing Underperformers | Jack Danger](https://jackdanger.com/managing-underperformers/)
* [Creative Peer Recognition: How to Get Better at Team Celebration](https://letsgrowleaders.com/2024/07/08/creative-peer-recognition/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Micromanagement - The Absolute Worst? - Yaniv Preiss](https://yanivpreiss.com/2024/07/06/micromanagement-the-absolute-worst/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Forming, Storming, Dreaming, Performing — Gosei](https://gosei.eu/blog/orming/)
* [teambuilding / lower case opinions](https://lowercaseopinions.com/teambuilding)
* [How organisations cripple engineering teams with good intentions](https://varoa.net/2024/01/09/how-organisations-cripple-engineering-teams-with-good-intentions.html)
## Goals, Strategy & Planning
* [OKRs as a strategy debugger (& sandwich maker)](https://www.allankelly.net/archives/7464/okrs-as-a-strategy-debugger-sandwich-maker/)
* [Good Goals/Bad Goals](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-216-good-goalsbad-goals)
* [TBM 324: Goal-O-Rama - by John Cutler - The Beautiful Mess](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-324-goal-o-rama)
* [How to Reduce Planning, Deliver More, and Surprisingly, Reduce Pressure - Johanna Rothman](https://www.jrothman.com/mpd/2025/03/how-to-reduce-planning-deliver-more-and-surprisingly-reduce-pressure/)
* [TBM 383: Maximizers vs. Focusers - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-383-maximizers-vs-focusers)
* [I Like Dumb Plans - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/i-like-dumb-plans?publication_id=1461103)
* [TBM 234: Maintenance, KTLO, and BAU - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-234-maintenance-ktlo-and-bau)
* [TBM 235: Forms & Shadows - by John Cutler](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-235-forms-and-shadows)
* [Strategy as a Series of Beliefs - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/05/12/strategy-as-a-series-of-beliefs/)
* [Your non-linear problem of 90% utilization](https://longform.asmartbear.com/utilization)
* [Roadmaps are tools - jdamcd.blog](https://jdamcd.blog/posts/roadmaps/)
## Performance & Metrics
* [Evaluating Managers: 5 heuristics to measure managerial impact](https://abdulapopoola.com/2023/01/09/evaluating-managers-5-heuristics-to-measure-managerial-impact/)
* [Am I a Good Manager ?. If you find yourself asking this… | by That Crazy Moment | Medium](https://medium.com/@thatcrazymoment/am-i-a-good-manager-269d760c70a1)
* [People Success Performance Indicators | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/people-group/people-success-performance-indicators/)
* [Output vs. Outcomes - Problem #4 - by Mike Fisher](https://mikefisher.substack.com/p/output-vs-outcomes-problem-4)
* [Selecting the right product metrics (KPIs)](https://longform.asmartbear.com/product-metrics/)
* [Product Principles | The GitLab Handbook](https://handbook.gitlab.com/handbook/product/product-principles/)
* [Simple scorecards beat scales - Garry Shutler](https://gshutler.com/2023/08/simple-scorecards-beat-scales/)
## Communication & Collaboration
* [The subtle science of storytelling at work - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/communication/storytelling-at-work)
* [Communication Structures in a Growing Organization – Jessitron](https://jessitron.com/2024/11/24/communication-structures-in-a-growing-organization/)
* [The Precise Language Of Good Management - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/the-precise-language-of-good-management)
* [Nailing the basics: How to collaborate cross-functionally](https://www.operatorshandbook.com/p/nailing-the-basics-how-to-collaborate)
* [Playing defense: How to control the narrative if your work is being questioned](https://newsletter.weskao.com/p/playing-defense-how-to-control-narrative?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [How to Communicate When Trust Is Low (Without Digging Yourself Into A Deeper Hole) – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/08/17/how-to-communicate-when-trust-is-low-without-digging-yourself-into-a-deeper-hole/)
* [Fixing the fundamental problems of today’s remote meetings | Remeet — Incredibly fast and efficient meetings](https://www.remeet.com/whitepaper/)
## Delegation & Decision Making
* [Delegating Complex Tasks - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/delegating-complex-tasks)
* [Being in the details - by James Stanier](https://theengineeringmanager.substack.com/p/being-in-the-details)
## Organization & Culture
* [GitHub’s Engineering System Success Playbook - GitHub Resources](https://resources.github.com/engineering-system-success-playbook/)
* [Manage process before people](https://world.hey.com/dhh/manage-process-before-people-20736695)
* [Thriving in Chaos](https://medium.com/ni-tech-talk/thriving-in-chaos-f0d0e37ebfa3)
* [The Openverse - Open Source People & Culture Resources](https://www.openverse.fyi/)
* [When You Plateau, So Does Your Company](https://every.to/no-small-plans/a-founder-s-guide-to-expanding-your-comfort-zone)
* [Be a thermostat, not a thermometer](https://larahogan.me/blog/be-a-thermostat-not-a-thermometer/)
* [Thermostats | Another Rodeo](https://another.rodeo/thermostats/)
* [Design Your Organization for the Conflicts You Want to Hear About - Kellblog](https://kellblog.com/2024/10/12/design-your-organization-for-the-conflicts-you-want-to-hear-about/)
* [TBM 347: “Why Don’t Our Leaders Care About How We Work?”](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-347-why-dont-our-leaders-care)
* [TBM 336: Product OS Design Tips and Principles](https://cutlefish.substack.com/p/tbm-336-product-os-design-tips-and)
* [Jade Rubick - Organizational work and the second job](https://www.rubick.com/organizational-work-second-job/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [No Meetings, No Deadlines, No Full-Time Employees](https://sahillavingia.com/work)
## Difficult Situations
* [The Surprising Benefits of Conflict in the Workplace](https://davidburkus.com/2023/06/the-surprising-benefits-of-conflict-in-the-workplace/)
* [How do you handle layoffs on a large scale?](https://medium.com/@eyalmrejen/how-do-you-handle-layoffs-on-a-large-scale-9f513f496659)
* [Managers Believe Downsizing Is Effective. Research… | Corporate Rebels](https://www.corporate-rebels.com/blog/managers-believe-downsizing-is-effective-research-says-nope)
* [Human flaws in management: Unintentionally leading employees from engagement to exhaustion | by Austin Mackesy-Buckley | Management Matters | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/management-matters/human-flaws-in-management-unintentionally-leading-employees-from-engagement-to-exhaustion-f4d8138c80bb)
* [Are We Done Talking About Burnout Yet? Sadly, No](https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbesbusinesscouncil/2024/07/12/are-we-done-talking-about-burnout-yet-sadly-no/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Barriers to Change: Limiting Beliefs — NOBL](https://nobl.io/changemaker/change-barriers-limiting-beliefs/)
* [How to prepare for difficult conversations](https://www.stefanobaccianella.com/p/how-to-prepare-for-difficult-conversations)
* [The Silent Killer of Your Operating Practice: Fear](https://review.firstround.com/the-silent-killer-of-your-operating-practice-fear/)
* [Product Managing to Prevent Burnout | Honeycomb](https://www.honeycomb.io/blog/product-managing-prevent-burnout)
## Reviews & Meetings
* [A Guide to Running Outstanding Business Reviews](https://evidence.dev/blog/business-reviews/)
* [Get the Weekly Business Review App - Working Backwards](https://workingbackwards.com/wbr-app/)
## Specific Roles
* [5 Things Founders, Investors and Recruiters Should Know about the CTO role](https://medium.com/cto-as-a-service/5-things-founders-investors-and-recruiters-should-know-about-the-cto-role-a65d7bb66264)
* [7 proven mental models for engineering managers](https://zaidesanton.substack.com/p/mental-models-for-engineering-managers)
* [Explaining the role of a Delivery Manager – Emily Webber](https://emilywebber.co.uk/what-is-an-agile-delivery-manager/)
* [Hire for Floors, not Ceilings - Jacob Kaplan-Moss](https://jacobian.org/2023/aug/16/floors-not-ceilings/)
* [Introverted Engineering Managers Manage From The Background — Why That’s A Good Thing | by Alex Ponomarev | Engineering Manager’s Journal | Mar, 2025 | Medium](https://medium.com/engineering-managers-journal/introverted-engineering-managers-manage-from-the-background-why-thats-a-good-thing-502a9770e8fc)
* [Knowing where your engineer salary comes from | sean goedecke](https://www.seangoedecke.com/where-the-money-comes-from/)
* [The farther you go up the ladder, the less it’s about your technical skills – Jim Grey](https://dev.jimgrey.net/2023/08/14/the-farther-you-go-up-the-ladder-the-less-its-about-your-technical-skills/)
* [What a CTO should know about tech | deadSimpleTech](https://deadsimpletech.com/blog/cto_tech_capabilities)
* [Why Should You (Or Anyone) Become An Engineering Manager? – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2023/12/15/why-should-you-or-anyone-become-an-engineering-manager/)
* [Questionable Advice: “My boss says we don’t need any engineering managers. Is he right?” – charity.wtf](https://charity.wtf/2024/01/05/questionable-advice-my-boss-says-we-dont-need-any-engineering-managers-is-he-right/)
## Books & Resources
* [Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss 📚 log(book)](https://books.rixx.de/chris-voss/never-split-the-difference/)
* [Management Mantras - Stay SaaSy](https://blog.staysaasy.com/p/management-mantras)
## Misc
* [“Good engineering management” is a fad | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/good-eng-mgmt-is-a-fad/)
* [Why were you late?](https://www.visakanv.com/blog/late/)
* [A manager’s ultimate guide to effective succession planning - Work Life by Atlassian](https://www.atlassian.com/blog/leadership/guide-to-effective-succession-planning)
* [Scale your impact as a manager—six areas where you need to do the heavy lifting - Management Excellence by Art Petty](https://artpetty.com/2025/01/19/career-scaling-your-impact/)
* [The Rise and Fall of the Blue-Collar Developers](https://2ndworst.dev/posts/rise-and-fall-blue-collar-developers/?ref=techmanagerweekly.com)
* [Writers who operate. | Irrational Exuberance](https://lethain.com/writers-who-operate/)
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# 2025-07-23 \_FORTIFY_SOURCE
Published on *2025-07-23*
As a software engineer and operator, I really like it when computers automagically help me find problems.
But sometimes it can be a bit surprising when you’re not expecting it,
and when it’s not clear that has happened!
[I’m currently porting a ~50kloc codebase from C to Go](https://github.com/doismellburning/samoyed).
It’s a great piece of software, but it’s a little light on automated testing and test infrastructure.
[When porting a recent set of tests](https://github.com/doismellburning/samoyed/pull/72),
everything was absolutely fine on my local machine,
but my GitHub Actions tests failed with a slightly enigmatic `*** buffer overflow detected ***: terminated`.
Unfortunately, searching online for that message led to a series of false leads, until I finally discovered `_FORTIFY_SOURCE`!
From [https://www.gnu.org/software/libc/manual/html_node/Source-Fortification.html](https://www.gnu.org/software/libc/manual/html_node/Source-Fortification.html):
```none
When the _FORTIFY_SOURCE macro is defined, it enables code that validates inputs passed to some functions in the GNU C Library to determine if they are safe.
[..]
At runtime, if any of those safety checks fail, the program will terminate with a SIGABRT signal.
```
It turns out that [Ubuntu 24.04 LTS started using FORTIFY_SOURCE=3](https://ubuntu.com/blog/whats-new-in-security-for-ubuntu-24-04-lts)
while [Debian is still using 2](https://wiki.debian.org/Hardening#DEB_BUILD_HARDENING_FORTIFY_.28gcc.2Fg.2B-.2B-_-D_FORTIFY_SOURCE.3D2.29).
And my local machine (where I saw no issue) runs Debian, while my GitHub Actions run on Ubuntu latest.
Digging into the traceback led me to some slightly suspicious-looking C code that was called by some of the code I’d ported:
```c
strlcpy (suffix, "000", 5); // TODO: should have proper size
```
and indeed, it turned out what was being passed as `suffix` was:
```c
char digit_suffix[3+1]; /* Suffix abbreviation as 3 digits. */
```
So although the hardcoded string being passed was only 4 bytes (length 3 plus terminating null) and would fit,
giving `strlcpy` a `dstsize` of 5 and a `dst` of size 4 was enough to trigger the enhanced `_FORTIFY_SOURCE=3` checks.
[One (somewhat inelegant, but adequate) patch later to pass a proper destination size](https://github.com/wb2osz/direwolf/pull/582) and [all was resolved](https://github.com/doismellburning/samoyed/commit/1d69ab131ee91ab0ebd3e3134e913e0f46fa9df6)!
It is nice to spend most of my time with languages where details like this are handled for me,
but it’s great to learn about the evolving protections for when they’re not!
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# 2025-04-02 Mentoring vs Coaching
Published on *2025-04-02*
I think mentoring is valuable, I think coaching is valuable, and I think
they’re two different things, though I often see them conflated. Roughly
put, I’d say:
- Mentoring - “I’ve done Things Like This before, let me share my
experience and knowledge and thoughts”
- Coaching - “I see you’re trying to do a Thing, let me help you work
through that with questions and reflections and facilitation”
That is, you need to have relevant experience in the area to *mentor*
someone on it, whereas anyone basically competent can coach. And I
absolutely do not mean to be dismissive or downplay anything there -
being a *good* coach is a real skill and I’ve had the fortune to know
and work with some truly fantastic coaches. But I think you could pluck
a random person off the street and give them a print-out of [the GROW
model](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/GROW_model) and they could help
someone, because coaching is primarily about the person being coached,
while mentoring is about both mentee and mentor and requires that the
mentor have at least *some* relevant experience.
In a more concrete example - I expect Engineering Managers in my
organisation to act as *coaches* for Engineers reporting to them, but I
don’t expect them to act as *mentors* - this is where other (usually
senior) Engineers come in. And this comes from me not expecting
Engineering Managers to be Engineers - I expect them to be *technical*,
just not necessarily actually engineers (former or otherwise) - hence I
don’t expect them to necessarily be in a position to mentor another
engineer.
## So
[Language
prescriptivism](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Linguistic_prescription)
has its problems and I’m certainly not trying to claim this as some
universal truth - but I think folks who conflate the two terms aren’t
necessarily doing so consciously or knowingly. I think both techniques
are valuable, and maintaining a clear distinction avoids losing sight of
one or both.
# index.html.md
# 2025-04-02 Data Informed, not Data Driven
Published on *2025-04-02*
I really dislike the phrase “data driven”. I want **people** “driving” - I want them making the key decisions that move things forwards.
And I want those people to be **informed** by data - where they can be, and where it makes sense.
But the most meaningful decisions involve unknowns, and ultimately someone needs to make a call.
And equipping them with data is valuable, but ultimately it’s down to them, and I want to use a term that reflects that.
I want data to **inform** actions, not to drive them.
(In my more cynical moments I think some folks use “data driven” as a kind of [accountability sink](https://aworkinglibrary.com/writing/accountability-sinks) - “It’s not my fault, the data said so”)
## See Also
# index.html.md # 2025-04-18 “Process” is not a dirty word Published on *2025-04-18* I run into a lot of folks who have a very negative reaction to the term “process”. I think that’s a very legitimate response to experience of Bad Process, and there’s a lot of Bad Process out there. But I think there’s also a lot of Good Process and that’s under-represented and Good Process can be hugely valuable. [If by “Process” you mean](https://blog.doismellburning.co.uk/if-by-whiskey/) long rigid documents that are tedious to read, tedious to follow, often just aren’t read or followed at all, bear little resemblance to reality, or are used as a stick to punish folks? Yeah that’s Bad Process and it can get in the sea. [If by “Process” you mean](https://blog.doismellburning.co.uk/if-by-whiskey/) agreed-upon conventions that help folks be clear and consistent in their approaches, increase alignment, make things smoother and faster with shared understanding, help newcomers get up to speed faster, save folks from reinventing the wheel or working things out from first principles repeatedly, and help surface disagreements and gaps and misunderstandings? Gimme gimme gimme. And a lot of the time Bad Process is what gets called “process” while Good Process ends up as “agreements” or “ways of working” or a tonne of other names that obfuscate it slightly. I firmly believe that **Good Process will make things faster and smoother and easier and clearer** and shying away from anything “process” because you only think of Bad Process means giving up a lot of value. ## Avoiding Bad Process I think there’s so much Bad Process because it’s really easy to create. Some ways to avoid going wrong: ### Don’t try to cover every possibility It’s really tempting to want to get stuck in and try to define every scenario, every possibility, every exception. Don’t - start with what you’re clearest about, iterate from there. Fundamentally this increases the likelihood you’ll actually ship something - perfect is the enemy of good after all. But also by definition exceptions are exceptional - give people space and tools to work things out in the field as they need to. If something turns out to be a more common occurrence, sure, incorporate it later. ### Don’t go too deep If it’s important someone cuts the wires in colour order with number three cutters, say so. If someone just needs to cut the wires, just say that. There are places where it’s valuable to be consistent (often at interaction points), but there are places where it’s valuable to give folks space to act as they see fit. The deeper you go, the more possibilities you encounter - see “Don’t try to cover every possibility”. ### Involve stakeholders An all-too-common scenario is someone (usually with a title like “Manager”) goes away and Writes A Process but it’s for Other People to follow and so they hand it off and then the folks actually on the receiving end find it’s irrelevant or stifling or otherwise unhelpful. As with so many things, feedback loops are important, handoffs can be harmful. [The IKEA effect](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IKEA_effect) is real - people have more attachment to things they have a hand in - they’re more inclined to follow a process they helped create. ### Treat it as an ongoing living thing You will not get things right the first time, and even if you do, things change and evolve. If your policies aren’t updated to reflect changing realities, they’ll become stale and irrelevant, and people will begin to distrust and ignore them. Per the IKEA effect, this is another opportunity for folks to become attached and invested as they contribute to updates and changes. ### Understand that reality is messy Sometimes people won’t follow the process. There’s a whole host of reasons why, and it can be tempting to write this off as “laziness” or “human error”. But sometimes there’s an ongoing emergency, sometimes things didn’t go to plan, sometimes there’s circumstances the process didn’t envision, and sure sometimes people just simply forget stuff or get it wrong. Be clear about why the process says what it does. This is of the most important parts of documentation in general - context and understanding - see [https://blog.doismellburning.co.uk/document-all-the-things/](https://blog.doismellburning.co.uk/document-all-the-things/). If people miss something, enable them to understand the consequences. Maybe part of a process is safety critical, or has implications you might miss - the clearer this is, the better. If people need to adapt something, they can do so better the more they understand it. ## Creating Good Process There’s a lot to be said for just writing down the briefest version of what already happens / what you want to happen, and iterating on that - incremental improvement etc. ### Documenting Minimal Viable Process Several years ago, I was working with an organisation and wanted to bring in another contractor to help with some specific challenges they had. I had management approval, I knew someone good, they were well within the org’s budget, I thought this would be straightforward. The exact circumstances are a bit of a blur but roughly speaking I approached Legal first to get a head start on any potential contract issues - they told me I needed approval from HR first because this was a people topic, HR told me I needed to talk to Purchasing first because this was a purchasing engagement, and Purchasing told me I needed to get Legal’s signoff on the contract first. This was somewhat frustrating. And along the way, I got pointed at assorted process and policy documentation that generally seemed either outdated, irrelevant, or both. Ultimately it turned out there was a combination of some changed processes, misunderstandings about what I wanted, and general confusion, and I figured out the way forward. So then **I wrote down what I did** in a document called something like “My Process For Engaging A Contractor”. It was about five bullet points of “this is what I eventually did that worked for me”, with an introduction that was much longer and provided context and disclaimers, but **it helped the next person with the problem**. And they were able to improve it and help the next person after them. They had work to do to fill in the gaps, to figure out the answers to questions etc., but the process document gave them a framework and guidance and direction that got them to a solution much faster than if they’d had to figure it out from scratch. ## So I think it’s valuable to differentiate between Good Process and Bad Process, and I think Good Process is super valuable. I want folks to know that “process” can mean good things, and there’s value in investing in the right kind. ## See Also - [Jonathan Lange on process](https://notes.jml.io/2021-07-10-14-04/) # index.html.md # 2020-06-20 Capital Letters Considered Harmful Published on *2020-06-20* I have a theory that you can often tell scamminess/sincerity by whether someone is capitalising concepts and using them as Very Definite Terms or not. When you see people talking about lower-case-a “agile”, they’re often discussing the ideas in the original [agile manifesto](https://agilemanifesto.org/)- people over process, customer collaboration, responding to change. When people talk about capitalised “Agile” there’s all too often a rigid process (that they’re selling you) with certification (that they’re selling you) that will totally solve all your problems, honest guv. When you see people talking about lower-case “devops”, they’re often discussing breaking down silos, encouraging collaboration, empowering others to do things and achieving a common goal. When people talk about capitalised “DevOps” then all too often they mean “we bought this tool / renamed our sysadmins / fired our technical operations team / gave all the developers root”. Artificial Intelligence, Cloud, Big Data, Machine Learning, and more - so often when I see them capitalised, someone doesn’t really know what they’re talking about, is jumping on a buzzword bandwagon, and/or is trying to sell me something counter to my interests. # index.html.md # 2025-12-19 Throw Away Your Organisation’s Chat History Published on *2025-12-19* I’ve spent a lot of time at distributed / “remote first” orgs, where IRC / Slack has been “the office”. One advantage of having so much chat being written is that you can retain it for search. Want to revisit the conversation you had yesterday with someone? It’s right there! However I’m a big believer in culling history after some time - specifically **dropping chat history after 18 months**. **Why drop the history?** First and foremost, **to keep it from being used as a primary knowledge base**. When your chat history is persistent and linkable, it’s all too easy to get sloppy and instead of writing up decision logs, documentation, resolutions, notes etc., just link to the section of chat. That’s not so bad for something low-effort and transient (“what were we talking about last week”) but you want proper records of anything important - knowing that your chat is transient helps encourage good behaviour there. I think there’s also a more human aspect to it. While I believe in the wisdom of “**dance like nobody’s watching, write like \`disclosure counselAlways seek data; never act on data alone. Because not looking at the data is just ignorance, but believing that all important things are in the data, or that the data are measuring what you think they're measuring, is also folly.
— Jason Cohen (@asmartbear.com) 3 April 2025 at 23:07